I am in college close to home, however I have a dorm there. I don't like to stay in my dorm though because I live with obnoxious drunk college students. I don't like staying home either however because every morning I wake up to my parents fighting. Yesterday they spent from 8-915am argueing about 2% milk! The only place I feel like I can get some peace is my boyfriend's house, but my parent's don't approve of me staying there. I feel so trapped and I don't know what to do about it.
2006-12-04 00:30:15 · 13 answers · asked by cutie pie 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Either get your own apartment or put up with dorm life. I'm not saying this because I agree with your parents. I'm saying this because leaving home to live with a guy to get away from your parents is a really bad idea.
When you leave home it should be because you are independent and ready to support yourself. It should be because you want to start your life, and live on your own terms.
If you move in with the guy, you'll be living by his rules whether you think so or not.
Be strong, do the best thing for you.
2006-12-04 00:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Firespider 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have to deal with your parents fighting but they are right to be concerned about moving in with your boy friend. It will make it very difficult to to do homework and stay focused on school. Talk to the dean at your school and see if you can be moved to a dorm that is not as loud and obnoxious. The usually have sections reserved for students that are there to actually learn something.
2006-12-04 00:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that it seems like a good idea now but in the long run you wouldn't be happy with your decision. Your parents disapprove of things that they know are harmful to you. Can you get a different dorm room? I would try that before abruptly moving in with your bf.
2006-12-07 19:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by Dawn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi.....Who's life is it? Your's or your parent's? They have to allow you to make your own choice's, even if it is a mistake. But some parent's aren't capable of doing that. Since you are in college, I assume you are old enough to make your own decision's. You are at the age to where you have to start living your life for you, not them. And if they do not understand or agree with any of your decision's, then that is their problem, not your's. If moving in with your boyfriend is a mistake, then it is your mistake to make & to learn from it.
I don't blame you for not wanting to stay at your dorm or at your parent's house. Have you mentioned both these points to your parent's? Providing your boyfriend is a good guy, providing you are considering this for the right reason's, then why not move in with him? You parent's want to continue making your decision's for you when they can't even stop arguing about milk!!!! And, consider, if they are the one's paying for your tuition then they just might discontinue paying if you ," don't please them!!!" Good luck!!!>>>Zeta
2006-12-04 00:43:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you should wait before you move in with your bf, stay the night sure, but dont move in. the best thing would be to get your own place. i honestly think that a relationship should go on for at least 1 1/2 year before you move in with eachother. make sure its something that would be good.
2006-12-04 00:33:54 · answer #5 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all how long have you beeen going out with your bf to be LIVING with him?? If it is 1-2 years...it would be better for you to move in with your other freinds or other apts where you share room with other.
2006-12-04 00:35:55 · answer #6 · answered by cutieee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you absolutely should not. Your parents will always be your parents, although your boyfriend may eventually change. It is better to endure arguments over 2% milk than to alienate your parents.
2006-12-04 00:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i hate to say this but forget you parents if thats the only place you feel comfortable move in with him if thats the only place that you can do school work but still hangout then go for it
2006-12-04 00:43:19 · answer #8 · answered by xjojox_wht_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're 18 or older, then you're free to do what you want. You're basically an adult. But before you make that decision, you need to think about it long and hard and make sure that it would be the right thing for you and him to do.
2006-12-04 00:34:59 · answer #9 · answered by Blayzn 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move in only after marriage
2006-12-04 01:05:22 · answer #10 · answered by champion of the underdog 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋