we still get on really well, we both know that right now we aren't going to get back together (distance) but I REALLY feel like seeing him! Should I go? or will it make me miss him more? (its been about 3months since we broke it off).
2006-12-04 00:22:04 · 11 answers · asked by supagrrrl84 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- I ended it, for a few reasons. distance not being the main one. he isnt seeing anyone else - nor am I. I just miss him! I don't see why I shouldnt spend the weekend with him? am I being ridiculous???
2006-12-04 01:04:58 · update #1
Don't go....you are opening yourself up for more hurt and difficulty.....you can't always have what you want.....if things are meant to be, then the two of you will find a way to be together despite the distance....since you broke it off, it apparently was not important enough to make it work....stay home and move on with your life....good luck
2006-12-04 00:26:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is sort of a risky situation. My reason for saying so is because going to see him might just help you get over him, but, then again it might make a turn for the worst. If you are trying to get over him, I'd recommend that you go shopping or have fun doing things you love before you spend money on the plane tickets. Here's something to think about; It's been 3 months since you guys split, and you AGREED to split with him because of the distance between the two of you. Did YOU really want to split with him or was it HIS idea to split? If it was his idea, he's basically telling you that you're too far away and he doesn't want to have to wait to be with you. Which means that he wasn't really into the relationship as much as you were because if that were the case, he'd know that distance makes the heart grow fonder. I think that because he felt things had to end because of your distance, he's definitely going to be seeing other girls. Your best bet is staying where you are. You don't want to go see him and be super geeked about it especially if you're still getting over him because you might see or hear something that'll make you think that making the trip turned out to be a bad idea after all.
2006-12-04 08:59:12 · answer #2 · answered by ♥aNgeL eYeS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, don't go see him this weekend. Spend the time looking for other people that you can find to be friends with or date. There's no good outcome for going to see your ex. If it's because of distance then seeing him will not help. You need to go on with your life and get over him.
2006-12-04 08:25:42 · answer #3 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on why you broke it off with him. If it was because of abuse or cheating then it is probably not a good idea, otherwise it is healthy to continue to have a close relationship with someone you were really close to as long as both people are honest about how they feel. If you are currently seeing someone else though, they may not approve of you seeing your ex.
2006-12-04 08:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel like so, you can go and see him, but i think that will make you miss him more. the wise thing to do is move on, if he still loves you and want to get back with you like b/f and g/f, he must be able to find ways to let you know. sit back and just see how things go!!!
2006-12-04 08:35:52 · answer #5 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know you're not going to get back together, then it's time to move on. If you're having doubts about breaking up, then go and see if there is something to work out.
2006-12-04 08:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Julie F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. You are hanging on simply because you haven't let yourself move on.
Remember why you two broke up in the first place. Don't waste anymore of your time with someone that there is no future with.
2006-12-04 08:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by bonjovigroupie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will only hurt yourself by reopening the relationship. Let it go as a special time in your life that has passed. Remember it fondly, but don't try to rekindle something that won't work...
2006-12-04 08:26:44 · answer #8 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT........
EVEN THINK ABOUT IT!!!!!
an ex is an ex is an ex
you've broken up
you both have your own space
dont intrude
unless you are asked (which i strongly doubt)
2006-12-04 08:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by edith i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you break up? are you really sure you want to go there and possiblly come back more confused?
2006-12-04 08:29:15 · answer #10 · answered by lizzi_61 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋