Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 10 months now and for some reason he cant trust me.i have never cheated on him or anything and he still does not trust me when it comes to being around any males...and he has cheated on me before but i forgave him.what should i do?
2006-12-04 00:20:26 · 12 answers · asked by tiddie14 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He sounds like he has his own insecurity's to deal with. Even though you forgave him maybe he thinks you will cheat any way to get back at him as well. So no matter how hard you try he has to get over it his self.
2006-12-04 00:24:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's his own conscious that is tormenting him. Because he has strayed he is feeling that you will do the same or just the fact of him knowing his pattern has him seeing himself and projecting it upon you. I would say in situations like these its best to part ways for a spell. This usually gives the other person time to redirect themselves and you time to see if you really want to stay in the relationship. Cheating mates are a hit and miss proposition as it relates to if they will do it again. Sometimes they will never cheat again and sometimes they will. So take a little break. Let him get it out of his system.
2006-12-04 00:44:42 · answer #2 · answered by Wordsmith 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason is because he has cheated. I don't know what it is, I went thru the same thing once...in fact that's how I knew he was cheating on me ! He was so insecure and accusing me of cheating..and wa-la...caught him! They say once a cheat always a cheat..after I divorced him ( caught him 3 x's ) he's been married 4 MORE TIMES !!! I can't say they all cheat again...but I think it gets easier for them. Think about it. Good luck.
2006-12-04 00:27:38 · answer #3 · answered by Marti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't trust you because of his own insecurity which stems from the fact that he is still cheating on you. I think it is time to find another boyfriend because this problem is just going to keep getting worse.
2006-12-04 00:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by RayCATNG 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If you've only been dating for 10 months and he has already cheated then he will do it again, if he's not already doing it. Take it from a guy, you need to get out.
2006-12-04 00:35:40 · answer #5 · answered by Cyber Stalker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His insecurities lie with himself and not with you!
As he has cheated on you, he knows just how "easy" these things can happen. Whats more, he now knows what he is capable of and is consumed by the notion that he can only judge others by his own standards.
It's a form of guilt but he's just projecting it towards you and all other men.
2006-12-04 00:24:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is insecure and you need to give him an ultimatum:
either he trusts you or if he dont start trusting you then your gon kick his insecure, good-for-nuthin @ss to the curb...
he'll come thru!
p.s. you should never have forgave him when he cheated on you!
how can a player change his game?
2006-12-04 00:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the reason why ur boyfriend doesn't trust you is because he cheated on you and he thinks you will do the same to get revenge. its very hard to convince men that ur trust worthy but that's men for ya.
2006-12-04 00:25:48 · answer #8 · answered by sonia h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dump him if hes cheated on you and acts like that hes a *** its like saying its ok for me to do it and think about it but not you a little jelousy is appropriate at certain times and is to be expected
2006-12-04 00:24:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is using reverse psychology on you to make you feel guilty for HIS CHEATING! DUMP him!
2006-12-04 00:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋