im 19 and time and time again girls say how they fella turned out to be a prick when its obvious from before they have even met him that he is just a tough looking wana be hardass thats just playing the charm card. why do they always fall for them and also the fake romatics and never the real ones? and do you eventually wise up at a certain age?
2006-12-04 00:20:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Generally females are dramatic in the first years of being on the dating scene. Not only that but sometimes people put a front at the beginning of a relationship, as if they were God's gift to females, when they turn out to be a hellacious counterpart instead. Sometimes females are oblivious to the inner machinations of a male, just as males are often obvious to that of a female. It really depends on what a female goes through to mature--age really doesn't make a difference. I am just 22, my boyfriend has just turned 20. He became involved with me because he found most other females to be superficial and overly dramatic, often times asking for trouble just to have some male drag them out of it. I became involved with him because he seemed to be matured, not fueled by sexuality, and had common sense as well as book sense. I think a lot of our life experiences helped with maturing, but all the while maintaining a playful side. There is no magical formula for a person being suited to you--it just happens as long as you don't give up on the search. By that I mean, don't be blind when the right person comes around but don't make yourself look desperate for a relationship in the mean time. Some people ALWAYS play games while others never do--no age determining. And yes, if a female is just fussing to you about how so and so did her wrong, she's fishing for attention.
2006-12-04 00:27:52 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of us wise up eventually. There is no certain age when it happens. Its a matter of experience. Woman fall for the charm card because that's what's being played.
Once they get to know someone a bit better, they are more likely to see through the b.s.
No one has a sign on them to warn you off, so you just do the best you can.
2006-12-04 08:25:43 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes we eventually wise up. But its not going to happen until they get tired of being used and abused and learn to respect and love themselves first.
2006-12-04 08:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Carmela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women? I know a man who was with a very manipulative, controlling woman who cheated on him every chance she had. He finally left her, but wait, now he wants her back! Apparently, he likes to be used and abused, and being with a whore. He can't be with a loyal, good woman who treats him right. So I guess, I can say whats wrong with men, why do they do that? Why do they like to be abused emotionally and would rather be in that situation............
2006-12-04 08:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by venus11224 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, I am self-centered and I only think about me period. I don't have to WISE up to anybody. I am a man hater period and I am better off single than with any man. Enough said it is my life.
2006-12-04 08:23:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did & I've been with the same guy for 12 yrs. total (since we were 18). ...And girls do it because bad boys seems like fun & teenge girls LOVE drama!
2006-12-04 08:22:46 · answer #6 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they wise up when they loose their looks
but as long as your with a beautiful woman she will always fall for the tricks and/or the money
and they wonder why we become players and pimps
2006-12-04 08:33:19 · answer #7 · answered by Adam P 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋