If a girlfriend comes over for a couple of drinks while partner is away, and after a game of truth or dare things become a little heated..... it has never happened before and relationship with girlfriend returns to normal the next day . . .would you consider this as cheating???
2006-12-04 00:19:50 · 13 answers · asked by shez_a_maneater 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Is it different with 2 girls - just mucking around???
2006-12-04 00:21:25 · update #1
If there is no emotional connection, how is it different from using a vibrator while your partner wasn't around?
2006-12-04 00:25:45 · update #2
technicaly its cheating to be with someone other than your partner... even if drunk, even if they are a friend.
but if my gf did that with a friend of hers, I would figure it was fine, an experiment. if your gay its probably less fine...
but, no point in getting all stressed, if you are then tell your partner, if not, use whatever you learned from the game on them...
2006-12-04 00:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by head_banger_yyc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its not just cheating, its sleazy cheating. A vibrator doesn't have any feelings, and while you may be attached to your vibrator, and have intimate contact with your vibrator, it will not feel as though you cheated on it by having sex with a human being.
If this is normal for you, I'm sorry for you.
2006-12-04 09:08:21 · answer #2 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any kind of sexual action with someone other than your partner is cheating. If you had sex with her, however you chose to, it is cheating. Even if it was just a one time thing, it's still classified as cheating.
2006-12-04 08:23:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Short answer: Yes.
Long answer: Yes, and so would anyone who was in their right mind. There is no loophole that somehow makes it "not cheating" if your partner was away and it somehow happened by accident and whatnot. I mean, come on...
2006-12-04 08:22:35 · answer #4 · answered by Engineers 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Discuss it with your partner, if you really love him/her, you'll tell, it is obviously bothering you, telling is the ONLY way to make the issue go away. One lie will lead to another and at the end you will be living a lie.
2006-12-04 08:33:12 · answer #5 · answered by chilly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheating is cheating... be a big girl and take responsibility for your actions, honey... in the long run, things will turn out the way they're supposed to...
2006-12-04 08:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by nuknuklion 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes and how can you not see it as cheating thats like saying your partner isnt around so it alright
2006-12-04 08:21:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is cheating, you would probably say he was if it happened to him while he was away.
2006-12-04 21:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by Calais 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are planning to engage in that activity again, then perhaps it is...otherwise, let it go as something that "just happened".
2006-12-04 08:22:03 · answer #9 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is cheating!
2006-12-04 08:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by Steven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋