that there is someone out for everyone, because i still haven't found someone who loves me for me, and i struggle to love myself so how could anyone love me??? -x-
2006-12-03 23:30:25 · 8 answers · asked by Lousiana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm curious how old you are. I have a friend in her 50's who is single, never been married and she is happy alone. I'm sure you've heard that you can't love someone until you love yourself...I believe that to be true. Maybe you should get some self help material to work on your self esteem. Good luck.
2006-12-03 23:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Theresa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Out of the 6.3 billion people on this planet, I'd certainly like to hope there's someone for everyone. People in the same boat as you or maybe worse. If you meet someone like that, who can relate to how you feel, then you've probably found your match.
Mind you, love can bloom in the most unlikely and unexpected times.
2006-12-04 07:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for a long time i struggled to love me on the inside so i could cont look at me in in the eye and say hey girl you are pretty inside and out. I grew up with the kind of parents that put me down no matter what i did to please them so when my parents told me growing up i was stupid, dumb, and ugly and to shut up all the time i believed them and carried that into my relationships.10 years ago i went into a major depression, i started seeing a physiologist , i was diagnosed with clinical depression and post traumatic stress syndrome, i was put on meds, and i had to get to the causes and condition that made feel less then. it took me 5 years to free my self from the old voices that were renting free space in my head. today i am truly happy and i did not meet him until 5 years ago its in gods time not mine , I am married to him it has been 5 years and he loves me unconditionally and i love him the same. I hope something i wrote can help you ,
2006-12-04 08:01:56 · answer #3 · answered by Dove4ever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you dont even love yourself, nobody will..... Hone your self-confidence and maintain your self-respect; once you get these qualities, your aura will show and people will start to like you. By then, you may be able to meet that special someone.
2006-12-04 07:35:26 · answer #4 · answered by edith i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have plenty of time to find somebody, and you will. Just appreciate yourself for the person you are. You are unique. Work on your shortcomings. Everybody has them. But look at your good points, because you have plenty of them.
2006-12-04 07:44:46 · answer #5 · answered by elgil 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither have I and don't worry about it. Just be happy where you are in life and love yourself because no one is going to love you till you love yourself. There is.
2006-12-04 07:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes there is someone out there for you, sometimes it feel like forever to find or be found by that person.
Don't give up hope of finding that right person.
Best of luck to you.
2006-12-04 07:32:36 · answer #7 · answered by eyes_of_iceblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE YOURSELF N OTHERS WILL LOVE U TOO... WEN U HV LOVE INSIDE YOU THERE IS A GLOW ON YOUR FACE THAT WILL BRING OTHERS CLOSER TO YOU
2006-12-04 07:33:53 · answer #8 · answered by §wëet @ heãrt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋