when a guy invites you back to his place, is he just looking for a one night stand, or could he really be interested in you?
what if he keeps inviting you back and you havent given him anything sexually even though he has tried the moves?
is he interested really or just waiting to get some?lol xx
2006-12-03 23:28:07 · 19 answers · asked by Special Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think he just wants to get some. If he relly liked you he would want to take you places.
2006-12-03 23:29:33 · answer #1 · answered by Rusty 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If a guy asking you to come to their place on the first date they are defently just wanting a piece of ***! If a guy has interest in you then he should want to get to know you first as in take you out to eat and go and do fun things together. But once your both comfortable being around each other then that is when he should ask for you to come over and it shouldnt just be for sex it should be because he is very interested in you and just wants to learn more and see how comfortable you feel being there with him. Dont get me wrong it could lead to other things considering some guys are very sneaky and will trick you in a heart beat pretending they like you for a good amount of time just to get you in the bed in the long run. So just be careful.
2006-12-03 23:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could one or both. Have you given him any signs
that you can be had? If so, then he's probably after what he can get. If not he actually may be interested in you.
Does he show affection for you or does he go for the kill each time you're together? There are ways of telling what he's up to. Use your own judgment. Just remember, if he can get the milk through the fence, why buy the cow?
2006-12-03 23:35:57 · answer #3 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hold off a while longer and you will get the answer to your question. If he just wants to have a physical relationship he'll soon move on. It also depends on how he acts the rest of the time (when you're not at his place). Does he seem to be interested in you, your life, job, classes, family? Does he pay attention to you? You can usually tell by their demeanor outside of the 'bedroom' if they're interested in you.
2006-12-03 23:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by i have no idea 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's trying to get some, like any other guy. You should try to get to know the guy better before you go to his place, because once you do, he'll assume he's gonna get some. So unless you are into playing games, keep the relationship cool.....or play the game and remember that there's no real winner when you do.
2006-12-03 23:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by guicho79 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if all he wants to do is talk then stop meeting at his place, that seems like he wants to hide something. suggest going to a restaurant to talk or the mall to walk and talk. find something you both like to do. outside of his place. find some interests together. staying in all the time dont build a relationship, meeting friends and family and having fun. knowing what each other like to do for leisure time builds the relationship.
2006-12-03 23:34:47 · answer #6 · answered by cats3inhouse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are always trying to get some whether they genuinely like you or not (my husband is always trying those moves to this day, lol).
If that is the only thing he is doing, then he just wants you for sex.
2006-12-03 23:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by April L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when it comes to having sex noone can really say you can have sex after such a time you can wait months be 4 you have sex and he will leave or you can have sex the same day and get married talking from experience.so i think men can wait yrs for ti once they get it they will leave same way
2006-12-03 23:37:32 · answer #8 · answered by kiss f 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like that's what he's waiting for. If it makes you uncomfortable. Try to talk to him about it.He needs to respect your feelings. Or you should say Good Bye.
2006-12-03 23:31:33 · answer #9 · answered by BlueBird70 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how old are you? it seems you have to get a bit street wise! of course he is looking for a sex relationship and the next day he wouldn't want to know you, wake up
2006-12-03 23:33:09 · answer #10 · answered by srracvuee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋