here's this beautiful girl whom i really love. so I tried to confes to her my feelings and i did!!! but sad to say,she didn't accept it coz she is still focussing on her studies and and she also told me that we were too young to enter in a relationship and that she is not ready yet!!!! few weeks later i just heard a really bad news that she has a new bf now which is true!! so in other word she lied to me when she said that she is not ready yet!!! now i really really hate her and i want to forget her!!! but it seemed so hard to do that!!!can u give me some advice or what to do so that i can finally forget her and move on to my life!!!! pls!!!pls!!!
2006-12-03 23:23:49 · 22 answers · asked by mark!!001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best way to move on is to focus your attention on something else, a new hobby or a new girl. It sounds funny but go on myspace or a singles website and just do some innocent flirting. It will take your mind off of her, but you could even find a new girl.
2006-12-03 23:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by kellerman83 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I believe you cant blame her on doing that, maybe she has a good reason why she just tell you that thing, unlike you guys think of us that were so easy to said the term "im sorry i dont like you", no its not easy, its a difficult thing for us girls to said that because we dont want to just say what we really feel, we also want you to accept things in a way that you guys do not get offended so much.And when she said that shes still focusing in her studies then you should know what she might means..She didnt do anything wrong to you, and its not her fault if she didnt have any feelings for you.Its her heart who decides who's the one will she loved or not...Just like you, no one tells you to have a feelings for her, neither she didnt make you feel that way.You just feel it and now youre loving her.But even if she hurted you unintentionally then you should not get angry with her if you really love her..Love never get angry, it always forgives and accepts everything..You cannot forget what you have feel for her right now unless you will find another love on your heart.Forgiveness will set you free and understanding her could give you a peaceful mind and having a new start again.Loving a person could make you a better person too, if you love a person now then in the future you will have to love again and if the same things happen just dont make a negative conclusion that you cannot find someone for you.Instead of thinking that improve yourself more for you to be the best man for the one youve been waiting for.Be positive in everything, and give yourself some space for you to think deeply, what you really want in your life,your plans, you could go somewhere to have a vacation or hang out with your friends, then after that "space" maybe thats the time when youre ready again fall in love.And always remember that its normal to the guys to have a million times of brokenhearts for him to find the true love he was always finding of.Hope you have the match for your love, i know you will have it.Hope i helped you thats all.
2006-12-04 00:10:57 · answer #2 · answered by missy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well thats a bit more than you bargained for huh? I find that when I have harsh feelings for someone writing a letter to them explaining my feelings and why I feel that way helps alot. (whether or not you have it delivered is something of your own choice). I think you shouldn't take it too hard because she really seems to have not wanted to hurt your feelings by telling you that she just wasn't romantically interested in you. The only thing you really can do is just accept the fact that it cant be and move on. You are still in school so believe me this wont be your last love/crush.
2006-12-03 23:29:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make new friends, fill your time with things you like to do, and you will come out on top. For certain she didn't have the same feelings for you as you had for her, but remember, sometimes people don't know how to express their feelings so well. She may have just been saying she wasn't ready because she didn't want to hurt your feelings by telling you she wasn't interested in you that way, so it was easier for her, even though she should have been mature enough to tell you her true reasoning. Nonetheless, hatred is never a route you should take, her inability to express herself honestly should be a red flag that she is not someone you'd really want to be with anyway. Consider yourself lucky you didn't end up with someone like that.
2006-12-03 23:36:08 · answer #4 · answered by Sir think alot, @ your service. 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry, this is a story that many, many people have been through at some point or another, including myself. Trust me when I say, that in time you will be able to move on. Unfortunately, it will take time. Some things you can do to help is to hang out with your friends and look for a new female interest. Just be careful not make the mistake of not trusting the next girl because this last one lied to you. Not all are like that. You'll be okay :)
2006-12-03 23:28:34 · answer #5 · answered by April L 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
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2016-10-17 16:41:50 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, you are trying to forget her... Well since now you hate her, it's surprisingly easy to forget her. Just start doing some sport activities, and you'll meet a lot of girls. It isn't worth it to cry for your past love... Especially for what she's done to you...
2006-12-03 23:30:03 · answer #7 · answered by Charm girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She wasn't lying to you--she did feel that way and then someone came along and changed her mind. It's unfortunate it wasn't you, but how can you hate someone you liked? You are disappointed and sad, but don't let it make you bitter and hateful because that is just unattractive to the girl who might have her eye on you...
2006-12-03 23:29:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i know it was wrong for her to play you like that but she was letting you down lightly, does not seem like it, but from what i read, she was...i know your feelings are hurt so the best thing to do is just move on and forget her...nothing is going to change her feelings towards you...you may consider meeting someone else hun...thats the only advice i can give you
2006-12-03 23:28:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
They're has to be some other girl in your school or whatever that you like. She can't be the only one? Either try to find another girl or think,'' Why can't get over a backstabbing jerk?'' and leave it at that. Your to good for someone like that.
2006-12-03 23:27:45 · answer #10 · answered by skimboardergal6 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋