its not about being shallow, but honest would u honestly seek out a fat ma in a bar? switch it for men, if there are fat chicks and thinner chicks....who are u gonna try to chat up? i understand if its friends first and they fall for them. but everyone has to have an initial attraction surely if they dont know them??
2006-12-03 23:09:55 · 8 answers · asked by clare 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly I'd try talking to the thinner girls..
They don't have to be supermodel skinny..but obese just isn't attractive to me.
2006-12-03 23:19:14 · answer #1 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were a woman, I would rather marry a man who is fat but full of fun, and he also happens to have a fat wallet and a fat brain, than a slim one who is also slim in everything else, like slim in sense of humour, slim in common sense, intelligence, sportiveness, moral, spirituality and attitude. Besides, how do you rank fatness, or where do you draw the line?
Of course if a guy has to walk sideways through my door, I would ask him to join the weight watchers before I would make him my boy friend, provided other factors in his personality and possession are O.K.
2006-12-03 23:32:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fat woman tend to be more giving in bed. Some would say that is because they dont know when they may get it again. Personality is more important than looks. A person with a great personality can overcome any physical features that may seem unappealing. In fact I know more chubby woman who are cool to hang with than uptight petite gals
2006-12-03 23:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by fortyninertu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I actually like bigger guys, honestly! even before I got fat with my pregnancies, when I wore a size 6, I was more attracted to the thicker guys with a belly....not a dickiedoo (belly hangs out more than the dickie do) but a belly....skinny guys are just not very attractive. who wants to feel all those rib bones on thier backs when hugging each other?? eww!!
2006-12-03 23:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by TaureanAngel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, there is fat and then there is fat. there are other factors besides fat, for instance, I hate moustaches and gnarly facial hair unless it is the sexy 5 o'clock shadow thing. So if a guy who might other wise be goodlooking has a fu manchu thing going on, he's not going to be one for me. If the fat guy can make me laugh, I'll be interested in him if his butt cheeks aren't taking up 2 barstools. Too fat to me is when it alters how someone walks and their movements. Up to that, they aren't too fat.
2006-12-03 23:12:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah! I go for the tall guys who are chubby and kind of hairy. Not Robin Williams hairy, just manly hairy. I hate six packs. I hate muscles. I don't know why. I am picky about some stuff though, like teeth.
2006-12-03 23:18:57 · answer #6 · answered by Lauren 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I do think it's possible, and that it happens all the time. Maybe not as much as the other, but it is possible. I seek out men who seem to have it together, regardless of their build or stature...honestly!
2006-12-03 23:20:43 · answer #7 · answered by Kelly 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
very simple. attitude.
2006-12-03 23:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Jay Aka. ngerkday 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋