Is regular orgasms not the best aphrodisiac?
I bring my gf to orgasm 9 out of 10 times but she doesn't want sex as much as I do.
She is not faking it and I don't try to sound cocky.
It realy is bothering me.
Any suggestions that what could be my/her problem.
Once a week is not enough for me.
2006-12-03 22:29:23 · 13 answers · asked by alwyn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People have different sex drives. And just because the sex is or isn't amazing doesnt mean its going to make her want it more or less. There are so many more things that play into it. Stress is a big one. If school or work is stressing her out she's going to be less likely to want it as much. Women stress out alot more than men so our sex drives varies! Also, make sure you make her feel beautiful. That's the biggest turn on for me... I'll put down my books in a heartbeat if my boyfriend just sits there and tells me how hot I look studying! =)
2006-12-03 22:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by SoMuch2Give 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
The desire depend on the age, I suppose she is less than 35 years old,, that is the paradox,, when you are young and full with energy she is young and she don't want sex much but when you get older and be a bit week she will be going crazy about sex,, that's life ,,, enjoy it !!
2006-12-04 06:41:13 · answer #2 · answered by herosam2002 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I definately agree with you, and I am in the same boat as you, accept i am a woman. My husband thinks that once on a friday night is enough, and its not. He is only 28 and i am 26. Honestly I dont know what to do anymore. I want him to want me as much as I want him. I hope you get the answer your looking for, and let me know if you do.
2006-12-04 07:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by babes 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
there are some women who like to have sex frequently and some women who don't. you need to find out how important sex is to you and how important it is to her. if she doesn't like having sex often now, it'll be much worse in later years.
2006-12-04 06:37:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
~Women usually don't want it as much as men, I don't consider this a problem on our part. Once a week is too much. Have you asked her if she could go for a quickie with no orgasm? Maybe she feels pressure to orgasm?~
2006-12-04 06:32:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Take care of her health , practice and learn new positions , use oral techniques also .
2006-12-04 06:33:45 · answer #6 · answered by your noon 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wow, sounds like a guy with your incredible stamina and virility would need more than one woman.
2006-12-04 06:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by Isis 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Try bringing her to fewer orgasms. Satisfy her less and maybe she'll want it more.
2006-12-04 06:31:09 · answer #8 · answered by jesuspimper 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
if she is not ready for more sex then change ur girl friend
2006-12-04 06:32:54 · answer #9 · answered by Eccentric 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well you can always do yourself!
I don't know!! You should be asking her this question!
2006-12-04 06:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by konstipashen 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋