since I'm 18, gonna be 19 next month, & I can't get a girlfriend, I've obviously never had, I'm still a virgin, I haven't been out on a date, & I'm in my first year of college, how lame is that?, it's embarassing that I didn't get laid or have a girlfriend high school, cause high school is supposed to be the ultimate time for that & I blew it because I lack the skill, maybe I was destined to be with the guys
2006-12-03 21:24:42 · 19 answers · asked by introvertedguy06 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Some people say becoming gay is by choice, or by environment or of course by genetic.
There's nothing wrong with being different or being a virgin still. Just use that reserved energy to hit big in your future encounters with girls.
The world will never run out of girls ok, Dont rush, sometimes the late ones end up with the greatest ones.
2006-12-03 21:30:23 · answer #1 · answered by Dave S 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'll put it this way... you can't really "become gay"....
either you are, or you aren't... if you haven't thought you are, but know you have the capacity to be, then you aren't gay, you're bisexual...
Just let me remind you that just because you've not been with a girl doesn't mean you're destined to be with a guy...
However, also don't feel down on yourself because you didn't have a girlfriend in highschool, that you haven't been on a date, or that you're a virgin...
Although it's different, it's also the same in that... I was unable to get a boyfriend or go on a date, and didn't have sex until college either... however, I will state that it's better to keep your virginity... cause let me tell you.... just giving it up cause you can... is a big waste, cause ones you lose it, you can never get it back.
2006-12-04 16:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Zack 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a bunch of bull-hooey! Puhlease! Quit whining and feeling so sorry for yourself. You are still a kid and your question makes you sound even less mature than that your actual age.
Honey, some people are just late bloomers. I was and now in my thirties I am SO thankful that I did not peak in highschool. That's way too young to have your glory years and nothing ahead of you to look forward to. You have SO much awesome stuff to look forward to in terms of experiences, travelling, partying, learning, working and yes, relationships and sex too.
You've got a LOT of life left to live yet my young friend. Life is not over when highschool ends. In fact, it's just the beginning!
If you were destined to be with guys you would have known it long before now. Chances are you were attracted to girls and just too scared to make a move. Don't worry, most guys are. It's just as well that you will be more mature when you meet some great girls because now they will give you the time of day. Just be yourself and don't come across too strong. At the same time, you've got to give them enough attention to let them know you're interested like a smile, a double-take, say "hi" or anything to let her know you're interested. If she's not interested back, move on to the next girl. One thing I've learned is true is that there really are plenty of fish in the sea.
Good luck!
2006-12-03 23:41:48 · answer #3 · answered by LindaLou 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't f*cking say that!, you don't know what you're talking about. So basically it's "Okay...no girl (yet!), I give up, time to f*ck guys." Are you kidding me?
Confidence is 1st, Interest in her is 2nd, Being social with charm and sense of humor is 3rd. Basically just ask as many questions as you can about her. Base on your yahoo ID, learn to love yourself more, then use my advice.
Perhaps you're like me, I have trouble concentrating on a girl that is 75% or lower on the scale . A girl I'd love for a g/f has to be really pretty (a good 80%++). They're hard to find these days, especially if she's single. And don't worry about being a virgin. Many people today at the age of 20 -30 are virgins too.
F*ck high school, it isn't like what you see in movies man. From what I've learned...the 20s OWN high school. First year of college? bro start hitting up those hoes! Just remember that usually you have to make the first move!
2006-12-03 21:44:07 · answer #4 · answered by FeverLust 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, look, I was a virgin till I was 25.... You are not the only guy to be a virgin at that age... be smart about it. You are not gay. But if guys turn you on, so be it. Best to know that spanky spanky is safe then dipping your wanky wanky in in someone elses pool and ending up with std's or worse yet, pregnancy...
2006-12-03 21:45:54 · answer #5 · answered by nightsh253 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 15:48:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u wanna turn gay cos u can't get girls? don't be stupid, theres nothing wrong with still being a virgin. everyone finds it difficult to find someone. u jus looking for sex or a gf? but u ain't the only virgin around. jus be patient and don't be soo desperate. everyone gets there moment and u will too. better late than never :-)
2006-12-03 21:45:52 · answer #7 · answered by DaRkAnGeL 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband never got laid in high school and I think was 19 when he finally did.
About becoming gay you don't become gay you are gay or not and you choose to live your sexuality or not
2006-12-03 21:31:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
hmm..
maybe it got nothing to do with that dude.
I guess, it is not societic treatment of how many girls you will had before reaching college.
Having a special someone is a fate.
You will learn that later on.
Forced relationship, due to your misconceptions of it will only lead to breakage.
So you better make your mind set right now.
2006-12-03 21:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
dont loose hope dear! definitely there is some girl for u. just chill. enjoy college time. propose some of the girls u hav crush on. just dont take girlfrnd thing too serious. just enjoy... wish u luck.
2006-12-03 21:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by shalin j 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋