After 3 years me and my girl broke up... not even 3 weeks later she has a new boyfriend. And instead of telling me she sent me a link to his myspace page where he talks about how happy he is to have her in his life and things of that nature.... I cant believe it. yesterday she was calling me crying telling me that she misses me and stuff. and then today this crap... how come people... women have to be so cruel.... I gave her everything. I mean when i met her she was driving a 95 taurus... i just got her a 06 explorer.... gave her everything she wanted... treated her like a queen.. and this is how she repays me? she still wont even say it is her man.
2006-12-03 21:22:16 · 26 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Unfortunately some women/men are cold..........inadvertently, she wants you to see how happy she is whilst telling you that she misses you. By telling you this, she knows that she is playing with your emotions, keeping you at arms length and not allowing you to get on with your life but feeling as though she is free to do exactly that with hers.
It's a little game that some people play when they aren't entirely happy with what they've got, can't really see a way back and think it's "all part of the healing process" to humiliate their ex. Especially by e-mailing you his MySpace page link!!! Dude, that's cold!!
Do yourself a favour and delete any trace of her numbers, e-mail and MySpace!!
2006-12-03 21:33:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I got engaged to a woman more then three years ago, and today she doesn't even answer my phone calls. My mother told me a few times that this woman told her that she is preoccupied with her monstrous "son" (if something like that can be considered as a son), and that is the reason she sometimes doesn't answer my phone calls. But now she didn't answer them for months. I never heard of such a behavior. Of course I tried to start relationships with other women, so far without success.
2006-12-03 21:30:24 · answer #2 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman we are strange creatures, we can be really b****, if we want to be. Some woman only use men to get what they want. You have spoilt her and she knows that she can come running to you for help. BUt you have to put your foot down, she must have had this guy while you were seeing each other. But remember that not all woman are the same there are some good ones out there. You just have to believe and have faith that you will find some right. It might not always be the people we want it to be but there is someone out there for everyone.
2006-12-03 21:28:59 · answer #3 · answered by Sweetie pie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women loves attention.No matter how much money & attention you gave her,if she could find another man that can offer her better,then of course she'll go for the one that can give her a better future.But not all women are like that.Some women only want love and if you can offer her true love,even the world's riches cannot separate her from you but alas,it seems like your ex-girl are not one of those type of princess who only wants love from a mere cobbler.My advise to you is hit her back.Get a better girl and show it off to her pal!
2006-12-03 21:32:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand your situation.She justs wants you to make you feel jealous.It is quite common for a person to hurt their ex either mentally or physically.Men usually hurt thier ex physically since they are physically stronger.And women usually hurt thier ex mentally.In your case she trying to hurt you mentally by telling you how good she is treated by him. i don`t know if this is true.She is trying to make you regret.I suggest you remain calm and patient.Getting frustrated and showing her that you are getting affected will boost her and she will try even harder.If she has any good intentions for you then she will not do all this.
Don`t pay any attention and take consolation in the fact that there are many more fish in the sea.
2006-12-03 21:37:58 · answer #5 · answered by Lexi_leavin a mark behind. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you made her into a spoiled little brat, next girlfriend dont give anything but love, buy small things if you must, do a picnic, etc. If they stay, then it is love for real, not for what they can get. Slowly and slowly spoil the deserving girlfriend cause then youll know the meaning of for richer or poorer
2006-12-03 21:29:25 · answer #6 · answered by Bev J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you bought her crap but were emotionally distant. All the material possessions in the world won't make up for a lack of cuddles or positive comments.
2006-12-03 21:42:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop freaking out about it. As far as you know, she could have just made that page and said it's her boyfriend. Even if it is, the more quickly you get over her, the happier you'll be, and she'll feel bad cause her tactics didn't work.
2006-12-03 21:26:19 · answer #8 · answered by Low Key 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just find a right girl for urself - the one who will treat u the same way u do. Love is a mutual process. If it is single-sided contribution, its not gonna give anything except grief
2006-12-03 21:40:32 · answer #9 · answered by JUSTGIRL 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wait till she screws up properly.....its not long enough yet.....then when she wants to see you as "a friend" (read come round and let her seduce you) tell her yes but have another woman there. (any female friend will do). Later that night when you've gotten rid of her, crack a cigar and a bottle of beer. (It's ok if your friend shares this delicious moment with you)
2006-12-03 21:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by b-overit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋