if a girl refuses a guys sexual advances on more than one occassion, even tho the girl is giving out the signals, does the guy take it personally?does he think she doesnt like him?is he then confused by these mixed signals?
2006-12-03 20:52:58 · 19 answers · asked by hunni!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must be going to fast govna slow down and you will enjoy eachother more.
2006-12-03 20:56:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If you are giving out the signals that continually say no, then he cant be confused. He could however, really really really like you and therefor he may not stop until you tell him in a friendly but firm way that he can have a friendly relationship with you or no relationship if he doesn't stop...
On the other hand, us men don't stand a chance with you girls, one day could be no and the next could be yes, that's why some keep trying.. as Billy Connolly once said " if we ever understand the thinking of a woman, they will change it all the very next day"
:-)
2006-12-04 05:03:10 · answer #2 · answered by max 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First is she giving out the signals or is he just reading it that way. If this is a gf she probably does want to but feels morally that it would be wrong till she has built a proper relationship.
I don`t think it should be taken personally as she is just not ready for that level of intimacy. YES women can get us guys totally confused but hey thats what makes them so much fun and sometimes its really worth all the hassle LOL
2006-12-04 05:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys can be so base, and so simple. A girl has complex needs, she may be sexually attracted to a guy but that doesn't mean she is ready to *********. Women are sexual but we also have a mind, we need to be respected and there can be a multitude of reasons why we don't wish to take things further. For example, a girl might be worried she will be labelled with one of those awful names that men enjoy calling 'easy' women. Or she may have moral or religious reasons for not wanting to do it. Start using your intelligence and stop taking it personally. Give her time and respect, be friends with her and the sex thing will become less of a focus or a cause for concern.
2006-12-04 05:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by Peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OF COURSE HE'S CONFUSED~!!~!
WTH!
lol
but yea, he is, some guys just don't know what to do. If they take it personal... then they're jerks, forget about them, if they take something like that so seriosuly, they probably aren't that much fun to be around.
And, he will think a girl likes him, all guys have to think that they're likeable, because if they go in thinking they're worthless, then they wouldn't make an advances period.
And, he will be confused by the mixed signals... he might try harder, thinking she likes a guy who'll go all out for her... he might give up, because he doesn't like to play games like that... he might be totally oblivious and uses the same script over and over, slightly modified so he doesn't use the same words.
ex: Hey, do you like.... do you want to... I just saw.... etc.
2006-12-04 04:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by antsam999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look at you..........you are confused. I am confused. Your question just goes round and round in my head I figured that it could be written by a girl or a guy.
Doesn't matter. Either way No means No.
Girls do c.o.c.k-teasing a lot. It is all part of mating rituals. Take it with a grain of salt. Thems the way they are.
Guys like to be teased too. The one who can't take it drop the girls like hot bricks. It is a test for his testosterone.
2006-12-04 05:07:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nightrider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might not just be ready to go all the way but no you cant take it pernally because you dont know what the case is, but it is already to be confused because girl tend to do that, or she could just be a big flirt
2006-12-04 04:56:53 · answer #7 · answered by Sexy-C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused...
2006-12-04 04:54:27 · answer #8 · answered by snoozer282 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Confused - yes! Ask the girl outright and if she says no, thats it. Good luck though!
2006-12-04 05:29:28 · answer #9 · answered by rainbowarrior73 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course he is and i should imagine he wuld be very peeved too!
Why give out signals if you won't back it up?
Give him a break!!!
2006-12-04 04:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by crazeeladee no more 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been refused, and then later accepted. Girls do what they want, when they want to. Try again - twice, and if she doesn't go for it, move on.
2006-12-04 04:55:09 · answer #11 · answered by Paul H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋