Ok i got a q,
I just bought a promise ring for a girl.
we really haven't dated or anything.
We been close friends for 4 years now.
And i want to show her how much i Love her.
I want us to be togther.
Am i doing the right Thing By giving her a promise ring
2006-12-03 20:43:17 · 12 answers · asked by usher_l_98 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am promising her that no matter how far we apart.
I will always love her.
I will be there whenever she needs me.
If she needs someone to lean im there.
Someone shoulder to cry on im there.
You get the picture
2006-12-03 20:51:13 · update #1
damn that's going to be hard to get the same ring again.
I got it at a one offer off ebay.
2006-12-03 20:56:19 · update #2
what if she does freak?
what do i do then?
2006-12-03 21:06:24 · update #3
tell me how does this sound
T (her name)
We been friends for what now 3 or 4 years.
I would like to try to more then friends.
Im glad you let me become your friend.
When you open this box right now.
I want you to know it comes from my heart.
I hope it start something new between us.
2006-12-03 21:18:04 · update #4
If its just to say you love her as a friend,then thats okay but if you are only now revealing how you truly feel about her then you might get a reaction that you are not looking for!For me,i think it would be kinda weird to hear a long time friend say that he loves me in that way and that would probably shock me unless i knew all along how he felt about me.And besides that news,a ring would probably push me away from you cause that would just be too much in one day.If I were you,i would first find out how she feels about you then you can give her the ring either as just a friendship ring or a ring resembling the beginning of something new.
2006-12-03 20:51:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st if you are friends then you rellay need to to depict the difference plus does she feel the same way, i mean if you guys go and watch movies and stay up late and talk and she thinks as you as friend then wow! You must take her out and pick her brain on she feels on maybe you aqnd her being close but that will take at least until New Years Eve but you got alot of work. So get to it but ask questions first before you just give her the ring, i mean your friends and then your going to give her the ring. She will probbably freak if she thinks your just friends. Start slow and work up before the new year. Good Luck!
2006-12-03 20:53:11 · answer #2 · answered by A.K.A NK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is ready for tha type of commitment yes. If it's out of the blue perhaps you should speak with her about it. Regardless if you want a good solid foundation for any relationship it is communication. She can't read your mind anymore than you can read hers, so talk about these things together. Assumptions don't get anyone anywhere.
Tell her how you feel because that is what will make your relationship stronger than any ring or other present could.
2006-12-03 20:47:30 · answer #3 · answered by Wicked Good 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
promise ring is more when your dating I know you said you like her but doesn't sound like your dating in that manner you can still be a trusted friend and will always try and be there fro her. why not a frienship ring they have those and a charm for a necklace that also has friendship its in a shape of a heart and half of it is broken ( on purpose ) she gets one half and you have the other.
Promise ring would be more that she doesn't see anyone else but you as your intentions are to marry her and so she wears thering on her finger and other men will know.
2006-12-03 20:54:47 · answer #4 · answered by For ever in my Heart 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are always doing the right thing by following your heart, Be sure she knows the attachment of the ring, whether it is for friendship, or more, if you like her only as a friend or want to be romantic with her. It is always great to be loved and appreciated by someone I am sure she will love it!
2006-12-03 20:47:08 · answer #5 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you first need to find out how she feels about you. you can tell her you love her as a friend, but if its something more, than thats something both of u need to discuss, even something like a promise ring can be a big deal
2006-12-03 20:46:53 · answer #6 · answered by scion_xb_girly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not the perfect right thing but nothing wrong as well to be honest
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2006-12-03 20:46:09 · answer #7 · answered by Sameer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! But get one for yourself as well to let her know that this is a two way street and you are willing to show it....
2006-12-03 20:47:58 · answer #8 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that has to be one of the sweetest things i've heard and you should...
2006-12-03 20:56:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Take it back.
2006-12-03 20:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋