2006-12-03 20:23:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there,
It's not wrong to be in relationship with a person u love who wont commit but it is wrong to stay in a relationship when ther person you love and who you want to get married to wont commit back to you even after you have waited for a long time.
Hope you understood what i said. You are a matured person so all i am saying is dont let anybody take advantage of you.
Good Luck
2006-12-03 22:55:38 · answer #1 · answered by Blueberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey...
There is no right / wrong... But u must realise tht getting involved with a person who does not want to commit will only cause u more hurt. And it wont solve anything nor wil it make u feel any better about being with this person.
Somethings r very sweet n u shud let them remain d same way by not spoling them. A one sided relationship will not do any good to any1.. not even u.. u'l just b more depressed than u r now.
Dont get in to it. why wud u wanna b unwanted ya?? b with someone who also likes u :-) im sure there r plenty of people out there who wud wanna b with u.
Tc.
2006-12-04 04:28:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Stella,
I think its a nice particle question.
I think there is nothing wrong in loving some one.
But yes its wrong to have a relationship with him as he is not ready to commit.Now let me tell you one thing.We girls when we fall in love.The first thing that comes in our mind is commitment. But the same words make the boys run away from a good friendship or relationship. So instead of entering in a relationship directly.First just learn to become his close friend and get to know him better and let him get to know you better only as friends.Do not keep to Much expectation.Once you do that he may find certain good qualities in you that he may like and does not know that you had them in you. That May get him a little interested in you.But that does not mean he will commit to you.If you both are on the right track in your friendship than by God's grace some day your dreams may come true.Always keep a positive attitude.
Most important why its wrong to have a relationship is you may end up getting hurt very badly.And it may take along time for you to come out of it.
The boy you love will not suffer but you will
2006-12-04 04:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by netra k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if the man wont commit then why be with him even though his is hot, good lookin, nice but even the hot ones don't commit very well. Good looking guys don't commit even if you love them. if he isn't in to you then you shouldn't be into him. those guys are a dime a dozen and love every girl they can come into contact with. If he can't commit hten move on he probably has and some fifty times more with other women those guys can't make up there mind and really don't want to settle down, plus they love to flirt with all the girls to bust there ego! It really is sad but it is very true those guys you lust and don't luist you back only lust themselves and all the itty bittys that fall ove rthem when he flirts with the next best thing that gives him attention. So please move on your better then that becasue if you lust and he doesn't, that is the the major NO NO to walk away and find someone elsle! Good Luck Girl!
2006-12-04 04:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by A.K.A NK 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of commitment you are looking forward to. If you are talking about marriage then it is better not to drag him into one and repent later. Better wait for the right time and becoz you love him don't allow him to take advantage physically or emotionally. also ensure what his feelings are for you. It will be a deciding factor for your relationship.
2006-12-04 04:31:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is right, if you can have such a relationship w/o getting your hopes up. It sounds like you are setting yourself up to fail. This person won;t change and unless you can be happy in a relationship going nowhere, leave now, before you hurt even more.
2006-12-04 04:26:11 · answer #6 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If marriage and having a family is important to you, it may become an issue. Many friend are content with having a good relationship without marriage and kids. Make sure this is what you want too.
2006-12-04 04:32:57 · answer #7 · answered by schmitty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loving is nt a reason to accept just anything. Being with a person who won't commit will only hurt you.
2006-12-04 04:28:50 · answer #8 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not right or wrong but you must realize you will get hurt when they treat you bad or leave. It doesn't sound like this person loves you. Your better off to leave them alone and leave your self-esteem no more damaged than it already is. Try making yourself happy.
2006-12-04 04:27:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no keep you emotion strong try to think other thing and yes forget him because this is one point on which your entire life depend love them who respect you & love you.may after some days you got married to one who loves you with ful trust then .Think of future and not emotionalyfor present
2006-12-04 04:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by richi_richer2007007007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋