Am being adviced to leave the girl becuase my parents claim she is a relative and those in the line of that relationship at one time were in a bitter land wrangle with my Dad who won tha court case. The girl and I find it very difficult. What should I do?
2006-12-03 20:21:05 · 10 answers · asked by ibwee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
live your life, not a echo of Daddies
2006-12-03 20:23:41 · answer #1 · answered by Powerpuffgeezer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she is in the family. Then thats a clear answer there. Dont be with her.
But if she is not then.
You have to make up your mind. You have to talk to your parents and tell them I know you dont like the family but she did not do anything to you it was her parents.
Even with that they might not care. Love comes with many prices to bad you have to pay for it off the bat.
I Dont know the age of the both of you from a guess you 2 seem young. And if thats the case and your parents dont like her and you do. Are you gonna be with her forever? I Guess its a pic or choose thing now. You have to try to make your dad see that she is a kind person and the 2 of you are good for eachother and hope for the best. And if not be prepaird to be in the family fightin yourself
Goodluck
2006-12-03 20:32:35 · answer #2 · answered by Kos 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Live your life as you want within the bounds of decency and legality. If she is a relative, just how close a relative is she? Not your sister I hope and a first cousin is a bit suspect. Beyond that there should be no legal reason why you shouldn't stay together.
Best of luck and have a nice Christmas.
2006-12-03 20:28:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your hearts. You are the ones who have to live with each other. The land deal was not your problem and you shouldn't have to suffer because a few people are being childish.
Tell them to grow up and deal with their own lives.
2006-12-03 20:28:10 · answer #4 · answered by mistique1818 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of relative, but I think if you are distant cousins, just well make this relationship a secrect... dont tell anyone...
2006-12-03 20:30:15 · answer #5 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
live your own life .unless ur like close relatives like 2nd cosin or something i wold just do what made me happy
2006-12-03 20:27:04 · answer #6 · answered by the6ccat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? old enough to make your own decisions? if so , then make them, if not, listen to your parents !
2006-12-03 20:29:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should leave.She is a relative!
2006-12-03 20:26:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
mama is not gonna sleep with you !! got it
2006-12-03 20:30:29 · answer #9 · answered by Nolimits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...dump her and marry mommy.
2006-12-03 20:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by R J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋