Okay...I would say that Im prob. on a scale of 1-10 and 61/2-7 with sex experience right....so...I've had sex with diff. guys(not alot) but I've never came so its like I can really care less whether I have sex or not b/c I've never really had an orgasm and don't really enjoy it as much as everyone else so....whats up?
2006-12-03 19:39:57 · 14 answers · asked by Amanda M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, you need to get your mind right about it. What I mean by that is you have to WANT it. Sex isn't something that you should just do for fun. Find the guy that you can see yourself with in that way. Make sure there is a connection. Put on some soft music and candles and do some foreplay... or while you're alone, picture what you would like it to be like and next time you're in the situation, do what you pictured! Sex is what you make it. It's not going to be perfect unless you have that in your head! Good luck, sweetie!
2006-12-03 19:44:57 · answer #1 · answered by *Tee*Tee* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls' orgasm is very different from that of boys'. you need to set the mood... since you haven't had an orgasm before, i think the guy needs a lot of preparation.
1. eat foods that stimulate like oyster, tuna, wine and lots of chocolates.
2. set a very romantic room with flowers and candles.
3. play a sexy jazz music.
4. set your mind and put your full attention to it.
everything else will follow, in your case, i suggest you do the kissing and hugging longer, explore further, and remember, do it slowly.. good luck!
2006-12-04 03:59:06 · answer #2 · answered by zbronzetech 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think it normal to have sex but with different people is the issue. You may know that you are clean but how about the rest of the guys.
You need to have yourself a check up with your doctor first if you effected by any sex virus.
Secondly you need to seek conselling from a doctor about your mental health.
It not to late for this kind of issue because it cureable. Good Luck
2006-12-04 03:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by hafidz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hope your old enough to be having sex.. and if so you need to explore your own body on how to have an orgasm once youve done this you will know how to show your man how you need taken care of if he doesnt already know.. once youve had an orgasm you will know you did. never really had one means youve never had one. start with yourself and then you will know what you want and like from a man
2006-12-04 03:47:07 · answer #4 · answered by Kat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either they're not doing it right, or you need to learn how to enjoy it. It may sound funny, but my advice is to play with yourself. Teach yourself how to enjoy the sensation of sex without all the other thoughts getting in the way.
2006-12-04 03:43:50 · answer #5 · answered by Cynthia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are probably not having sex with the right guys or u just expecting them to do everything and u aint getting into it . i was like that but i spiced it up i would by games toys and **** to use to make me feel better the games and movies and different positions made it more interesting for me and him so it got more hot and the sex got better so u need to try new things untill u find the thing that works for u so u can get hot and well enjoy it
2006-12-04 03:44:41 · answer #6 · answered by caprichosa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NORMAL , more women than you think can relate to you, especially when they are young 18-28. Orgasm doesn't come easy for women in general.
2006-12-04 03:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by chaseki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some sex is fun for others it can be painful. For some women they can come soon for others it takes a longer time. I suggest you foreplay with your partner. This will make you horny and wet thus sex will be enjoyable, fun and you may be asking for more.
2006-12-04 03:47:26 · answer #8 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you meet the man you love, the man you ache for with every part of your body and soul, even a look can make you orgasm on the spot!!
Until then, if it doesn't do it for you, why do it? NOthing's wrong with you.
2006-12-04 03:44:06 · answer #9 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sex is the fundamental parts of your body needs,they said so,but with this it require love and affections!in order for you to feel and enjoy sex! for me sex is sacred but if your just having sex there and here! without love involved its useless you will never enjoy it!
2006-12-04 03:48:53 · answer #10 · answered by Naneth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋