Im slightly overweight and what i think to be not attractive at all. I have a decent personality, so why do i get asked out alot? Even by the guys that are notoriously known for dating the hot girls?
2006-12-03 19:18:42 · 25 answers · asked by Sami 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not easy either
2006-12-03 19:21:58 · update #1
Maybe guys see something in you that you don't see. Ask one of them if you really want to know. But if you do and he tells you remember its his opinion. Don't argue just take the complement.
2006-12-03 19:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by jessica a 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hon, it quite is form of no longer ordinary to tell once you're making those faces. I recommend, many human beings can look unattractive whilst they twist and contort their face. nevertheless, from what i'm able to make certain, you do no longer look gruesome in any respect. it quite is quite useful to artwork on your cloth wardrobe slightly and maybe positioned funds into some extra stylish glasses. Little variations could make an excellent distinction. additionally, besides the fact that in case you will get a boyfriend or no longer plenty extra probably relies upon on your character as a results of fact if all someone mandatory (to get a mate) is looks then i does no longer see very unattractive those with substantial others. i do no longer understand you so i'm no longer able to tell you why you haven't any longer have been given a boyfriend. What i'm able to inform you is that it's not as a results of fact of your looks. maybe it is your lack of self assurance? terrific of success, sweetie!
2016-10-17 16:36:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone looks at person's outer appearance. Being overweight definitely does not make a person attractive or non attractive. You are beautiful if alot of guys are asking you out. Don't be hard on yourself. Live your life and don't pass up opportunities
2006-12-03 19:38:19 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. Hollywood Diva 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you are wrong. Your view of yourself must be based on some strange criteria that others don't see unless you point it out. Even then they may dismiss your assessment of your looks because it is not realistic.
Obviously they see you have inner worth and that you naturally bring that to a relationship/friendship. That is worth TONS more that a perfect face and big chest.
Good looks fade, but quality people skills and good character last forever.I'll bet that you have loads of character and that makes you a valuable friend and interesting date (and more attractive too). Give yourself a break dear. Clearly you are an unwilling hottie!
Take care and have fun.
2006-12-05 05:55:16 · answer #4 · answered by tcb9020 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you are more attractive then you believe, or you have a lot of charisma.
There are some people that are naturally intriguing to others, usually because of their personality. I've known several people, both male and female, that were never any beauty queens or kings, but never lacked for companionship because of the power of their personalities.
So congratulations either way!
2006-12-03 19:34:16 · answer #5 · answered by Uncle Pennybags 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Two responses.
One: Beauty is in the eye of he beholder. And your personality may just be charming enough to shine through.
OR
Two: Fat, ugly girls are an easy lay; AND they are known to give the best head!
2006-12-03 19:24:16 · answer #6 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are you're not giving yourself enough credit. I mean, calling yourself "ugly" and "not attractive at all"? You have some self-esteem issues. I'm glad your ego isn't the size of a hot air balloon, but seriously, don't be so critical of yourself... Seems to me you're magnifying your imperfections to a point that this is all you see.
2006-12-03 19:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW, I envy you so much. I don't think I'm ugly but NO guy has ever asked me out, even the ugly ones. I'm not overweight too. That's my problem. Check out my question.
You're so lucky. It means you have a lot of appeal to guys.
You might think you're ugly but guys think you're attractive.
2006-12-03 19:22:05 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs Brandon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be thick. Guys like women that are thick in certain areas and it wouldn't matter if you were ugly in the face or not. If you got a fat booty or some big knockers most guys would ask you out just to get close to you.
2006-12-03 19:52:54 · answer #9 · answered by Trey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 words: personality, personality, personality! they must find you to be a nice person to talk to. even hot guys want more than just a pretty face and hot body! maybe you're not as ugly as you think, but still, dont let your guard down! good luck to you!
2006-12-03 21:14:21 · answer #10 · answered by ishida25 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IT JUST MIGHT BE THE PERSONALITY THAT ATTRACTS THEM OR THERE LOOKING FOR ONE THING ONLY IF YOU HAVE HAD SEX IS SEX STOP BEING SO DOWN ON YOURSELF AND LOOK INTO YOURSELF AND FIND THE GOOD THINGS YOU HAVE TO OFFER THINK I'M PRETTY I HAVE A GOOD HEAD ON MAY SHOULDER BUT DON'T GIVE IT UP TO MAKE YOU FEEL BETTER ABOUT YOURSELF BECAUSE IT WON'T I;M DON'T JUGDING YOU IM JUST KEEPING IT REAL IF YOU NEED TO TALK IM ME AT RPDIVERSITYTT@SBCGLOBAL.NET in small letters
2006-12-03 19:30:54 · answer #11 · answered by birdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋