What is wrong with me? You tell me.?

Question

So, I'm clean. I'm hygienic.
I'm not stupid. I have a good educational background. I graduated from college.

I'm decent. I'm not slutty. I've never had a bf.
I
don't date several guys at once and I've never dated.

I definitely not anti-social. I'm friendly and nice to both guys and girls and try to be a good conversationalist.

I always try to look presentable by wearing pretty, trendy, clothes and shoes that look good on me.

I am a good person inside.

I'm not overweight. At 5'1", I'm 104 lbs.

My face is clear. I don't have pimples.

I'm kind to people.

I go out a lot and do a lot of social activities and charitable activities so I get to meet a lot of good people, both guys and girls.

I pray hard to God to give me the right guy.

And I'm 26 and never had BF and no guy has ever been interested in me! No guy has ever asked me out on a date! No guy has ever expressed interest in me. No guy wants me.

I have absolutely NO appeal to guys.

So, how come no guy likes me? Then there's this guy I'm so in love with who made me cry and doesn't want to talk to me and told me there could NEVER be "US."

And I didn't try to make a move on him and I made it clear but I have to say it to him to express my feelings coz I can't take it anymore.

And I used to cry a lot coz I've never felt what it's like to be loved by a man. But the guy I'm in love with saying he doesnt' like me is the ultimate pain.

I'm so hurt.

obviously bored perv didn't read the details of my message coz if he did, he wouldn't ask all those questions since I addressed all those in the details of my question.

I don't boast to people about my achievements in school. And I've never boasted to the guy I'm in love with about my credentials and academic achievements. I just posted that in the Q & A for people to know because I once posted a question similar to that one and one poster asked me "do you have a flattering hairstyle? do you have a good reputation?"

Everything i said is not a boast, but only for information's sake since nobody knows me here.

Of course I have faults like everybody.

Answer 1

Point is you made a prayer that God give you the right guy. It's been answered, sister, they always are... now you need to trust that and simply wait. Happy people attract people. You sound perfectly fine, and I am sure your match will come. You may more appeal than you know and guys be scared to MESS with you... that happened to me too. But my love was worth all the wait in the world. Yours will be too. Trust it. Hang in there. Enjoy life and KNOW he'll find you.

Answer 2

Sounds like you are trying to hard.
Just live life and I promise the right one will come along.
Do your own thing and enjoy your freedom and space while you can. You are still young. Who says you have to be a certain age to do things like date, marriage, kids, and other things. This world has put a time limit on everything and that's not right.
Just look at it this way.
You can go anywhere you want to without explaining where you have been and who were you with. Why did it take so long and what did you do. Where are you going. Why did you do that. Why didn't you call. Why didn't you pick up the phone. Why did you get that. Why didn't you get this. How come you chose this place. Why didn't you choose that place. Why are we watching this. Why don't we watch this. How come you did that. Why didn't you do this. Blah Blah Blah
You get the point?

Answer 3

Having all that you've stated maybe too much for a guy to stomach. You see, in relationship sometimes its not the looks or the numbers of school certs that you have rather the personality. I see you're great but have you ever wonder why still no boyfriend? Could it be the way you walk, speak (tone), does it comes across as too aloft, cocky, etc.. all these negatives put guys off. On the flip of the coin is, perhaps you're too good to be true that guys think that a lady of your status should have tons of boys queuing to date you. Open up to some of your friends and words may spread. Before you know it, boys may be calling. Good luck!

Answer 4

Just a couple of ideas.

1. Perhaps you are subconciously giving off an aura of "I'm taken" or that you aren't interested.

2. Perhaps you are dressing well, acting well educated and successful, and you are too beautiful. Maybe the guys think you are out of their league.

3. Perhaps you are just hanging around the wrong crowds.

4. Perhaps you need to dress a little more provocatively. I'm not saying dress slutty or anything, but a little bit of a shorter skirt, maybe with some boots.....

But for a more useful suggestion, ask your friends to try and set you up with some nice single guys. Maybe even try an online service, like eharmony or match.com.

Good luck.

Answer 5

Okay well first off...for the guy who made you cry...hey ...everything happens for a reason...and u believe in God so even though u liked or loved this guy alot...God has to move things, ppl out of our lives because he knows thats not what he wants for you or he has somebody way better for you on the way! But u have to be patient b/c God will answer if your really sincere about what your asking..

Secondly...I know your 26 and all...but please don't be the type of female who feels she ALWAYS has to have somebody b/c you've been doing fine all this time...you don't need a guy to make you complete! Just chill and be patient....Im sure Mr.Right will show up in due time!

Answer 6

Judging from what you've said I think you probably come across as too "clean" and "good" you sound perfect.. which is probably a bad thing... guys might think your outta their league? Most of the guys I know like easy and slutty types and wouldn't be able to handle someone like yourself.

Don't worry tho, I'm not much younger then you and I've never had a g/f... The thought of me being in a relationship makes me almost vomit in my mouth.

Answer 7

No, That doesn't fit and you know it.
You have been looking so hard for just the right guy that you are letting everybody around you know it and unfortunately most guys want to get to know a girl before they marry her. So if you put out the image you wont get a bite.
Relax and enjoy what life brings you for a bit.AND quit looking for Him and let him find You.

Answer 8

Honey nothing is wrong with you. But I do not know you, do you perhaps come on as clinging. You just have not met the right person. Maybe you should try a different setting to meet people maybe that will help.

Answer 9

Where are you from? Are the guys over there smokin somethin or what? Cuz if you are the way you say you are I would love to have girl like you SEROIUSLY. It seems that the those guys just dont know a good girl when they see one. Its ok because itz their loss not youz. Remember you cant force someone to like you they have to want to like you.

Answer 10

hello first... i AM a young filipino...
im just 16 years old ... i can't speak well in english but i will try to give some advice or rather a piece of advice...

as i feel ... you are perfect? so wh
at is the problem?
you are educated? you are beautiful? how about your attitude?

just wait for the right guy...

yes.... as you said you are praying to give you a right guy..

just wait...

maybe God ,,, has a purpose...

maybe God send you the most handsome in the world...and the most God fearing man...

hehhheehhe..

sorry im just 16... to say this....

thanks....

if you want to e-mail me.... here's my e-mail..lets bonding...saying problems....

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tnx....

God bLeSS!!1