2006-12-03 19:04:13 · 19 answers · asked by sali_starr 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe you have issues youself that you need to deal with...or it could be that you were once with someone who did cheat and your just used to being that way....but you should probably at least TRY to chill out b/c you could have a good guy and be suspicious of him cheating when he's telling you he's not and there are NO signs of him cheating, and it could really get to him and he might just decide that he can't deal with that issue or YOU anymore...(Think about it)
2006-12-03 19:08:11 · answer #1 · answered by Amanda M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are asking this question, then he must have done or is doing something that makes you wonder. Or, you are just one of those "clingy" chicks that no guy likes.
YOu didn't specify how long you have been dating, nor did you say why you feel this way, so I can only go by my gut instinct and past experience. If you suspect your significant other is cheating, he probably is.
However, do not jump to the ultimate conclusion unless you talk to him about what you are feeling and why.
I'd give better advice if a better question was formulated here.
2006-12-04 03:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well depends... maybe he is friendly around girls... or if it is a long distance relationship, then the insecurity is of course, because you need a great deal of trust. But if it is a relationship where both of you live near each other, Itt gets irritating, after all in a relationship, trust is needed. I guess maybe because he is a friendly person or because some of his actions just make you suspicious...
2006-12-04 03:09:59 · answer #3 · answered by yewny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to answer you a question as well...
how sure are you that he didn't or doesn't???
i mean let's face it, men are polygamous by nature.
but if you really are sure that he never or he's not cheating on you and you are suspicious to him, maybe you know some of his history in regards with cheating.
i used to be in the same situation. my ex told me everything when we we're only friends so when we we're together, i can't trust him anymore because i know his history.
got it?
2006-12-04 03:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by KiSSiX 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature dear. did u ever see him flirting around or even eying someone in front of you? if yes than there might b an alarming situation but if "no" than dear there is no point in suspecting him, he is true to u and only u. however if any of ur friend have badmouthed him, dont jump into any conclusion before checking out the facts. believe in your love girl. true love is precious and rare.
2006-12-04 03:13:51 · answer #5 · answered by rosy.b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were just being protective to prevent him from cheating you and i guess you won't be heartbroken since you have taken precaution from a very early time
2006-12-04 03:09:12 · answer #6 · answered by Altail Impheton 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he didnt do anything to be suspected before but now he migth have. Anyway, a girl always suspects when she loves someone so much so that others dont take him from her.
2006-12-04 03:10:02 · answer #7 · answered by yordanos a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are insecure and may have an issue with trust.
2006-12-04 03:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by findogger66 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you are a female and you are insecure and not as independent as you thought you were. Get some confidence, believe in yourself.
2006-12-04 03:09:24 · answer #9 · answered by emcphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its called insecurity, be careful, because life has a way of manifesting your deepest fears. I say exorcise you deamon before it possesses you.
2006-12-04 03:07:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋