Heres the story(5weeks)...this girl, we always use to go lunch, out to movies, and even the occasional dinner/going out with friends of ours. Everything was really great...she likes to touch me alot, and we always use to laugh....now all thats gone, the past week has been really hard as i dont know what has happened. Her B/f did break up with her, but we use to go on lunches even before that happened. I didnt make the move cause i really didnt want to move too fast for the girl. Im so annoyed at her this past week...she doesnt respond to my txt's, unless its really urgent, and she seems to have gotten real distant from me...i have yet to ask her why, but she works with me, and i dont want to say anything yet...i really like her, and dont know what to do...One thing i noticed though, is shes really nice and laughing to everyone else...but shes now got a awkward feeling towards me everytime im there, as if she doesnt want to talk to me/ignoring me. and then we think girls arent evil
2006-12-03 18:32:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Couple of details id like to mention, the girl use to take me to lunch before the breakup, not the other way around, and she'd want me to go do things with her...ie after work have a coffee or something... After the breakup, she wanted me to be the one to confort her, which i done of course, and we started going out even more doing lunches, movies, etc.....even introduced me to a couple of her friends.....i dont know what to do now???.....Recently she got really mad at me, and told me to F#ck off, i havent talked to her since, she seems to be frustrated at me only....shes slowly starting to talk again, but i ignore her like nothing else....shes really got me mad this time, i dont know why shes taking it out on me, but i havent talked to her properly since...she asks me if im ok, and if everythings fine...im really serious toned to her now, and havent txtd again, or tried acknowledging her for awhile now...why has things got to this stage anyhow?...
2006-12-03 18:32:39 · update #1
First off, I'd like to start off saying that not ALL girls are evil.... just some...
Anymahoo... It could be alot of things...
She could have realized that you weren't the guy she thought she wanted to date/hang out with, and is to scared to say it to your face, in hopes that you'll just eventually drop in and go away.
Also, you could be clinging to her more than you realize you are and that's making her uncomfortable (not saying that you are.... it's just a posibility).
The fact that her boyfriend broke up with her might mean that she just doesn't want to be around men right now (after all, we ARE evil :P)...
The best advice I can give you is just leave her alone right now. (I know it sounds hard to do, especially if you do care for this person) Don't text her much (unless it's urgent) or call her much eaither. If she really cares about your friendship, then she'll come around eventually... And if she doesn't...well... she probably wasn't really worth it in the first place afterall.
Good Luck!
2006-12-03 18:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by Olivia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a girl, I cannot understand her behaviour. Clearly something is on her mind, and it appears to be related to her break-up. Could it be they broke up because this guy was jealous, or could she be feeling guilty about the break-up because she spent too much time with you? No clue... to be honest.
I know it's driving you crazy right now, so you've got 2 choices- ignore her, until she comes around. (And she will because she'll wonder why you're behaving that way...) or... ask her what's up - straight up. I would not recommend the latter, though, because I know some girls - when they are hurting, they lash out, and even if they are sorry afterward, it's a little too little, a little too late.
Look - she's gone through a break-up. She needs some time to get her head screwed on right. Give her time to find herself, and when she does, then talk to her about what happened and decide for yourself wether its time for her to get lost..
2006-12-04 02:44:30 · answer #2 · answered by Sugar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is just my opinion, so if it helps you out, then cool. First off, you need to talk to her about this sudden cold-shoulder treatment you recieved from her. A good time would be if she asks you if everything's alright, tell her how you feel about her suddenly being angry at you all the time. and then, you might get some indication of her true feelings towards you, and that should let you know if it's a good idea tell her your feelings towards her.
2006-12-04 02:43:10 · answer #3 · answered by veggie_85_16 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will march in there in there and tell her how you feel.If you like this girl then you should feel the pain she feels Let her know that you like her and dont let her go... You only get one chance at life...That a chance on her... Do not let her slip by. Help her you try to spend moer tim with her, and NEVER GIVE UP!!!!! HER HAPPNIES IS WAITHING ON AN ANGEL TO TAKER HER....Be her angel.... save this girl from the sadness. Bring the smile that she wants to have but cant.
2006-12-04 02:43:47 · answer #4 · answered by Miss Jade 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awkward feelings. Could be that she has developed feelings for you. Don't push here away now. Set your pride aside and speak to her.
Good luck to you...
By the way this does not make girls evil.
2006-12-04 02:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by mumtaz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's over doing. well, leave her alone, let her text you whenever she wants.
If she uses harsh words, then tell her that you're a human being and got a heart and it really hurts when someone talks rudely.
Cheer up
2006-12-04 02:46:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you were the reason she broke up with her boyfriend and now she resents you for it afterall you both spent alot of time together and were touchy feely with eachother hmm
2006-12-04 02:43:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is felling guilty by the sound of it
2006-12-04 02:35:37 · answer #8 · answered by G&T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u went wrong 5 weeks' ago
2006-12-04 02:34:51 · answer #9 · answered by Martin T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋