I met this guy while working, over the phone in June and we have talked off and on until recently. We live 4-5 hours away from each other and decided one weekend we would met half way. To make a long story short, I do not want to pursue this any longer because to me the weekend was a diaster and I am not feeling his situation. First he has no stability, works off and on doing BS jobs and he lives with his MOTHER and when I saw him he looked like a BUM, he is 32! He has a son that he spends quality time with, which attracted me to him b/c I am a single mom. We talked on the phone every day all day before we met in person and he wants to continue and I have no interest and see no future in it. I would not mind a occasional phone call but he is still calling whether I call him or not, he is not catching on AT ALL! Every time I do talk to him, he constantly asks me when can we meet again and I give the lamest excuses but still he asks. I do not want to be mean but it needs to end NOW!
2006-12-03 17:43:56 · 4 answers · asked by *sexy mocha* 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just next time you meet him in person, tell him that you don't want to pursue this relationship anymore. He is not your type. Be firm, yet sensitive. Also, think of it like this, he would probably rather be let go now and be hurt a little bit than being let go in a month or two and feeling even more hurt. Basically the more you wait, the more you will hurt him... hope I helped!
2006-12-03 17:50:37 · answer #1 · answered by lotmsrox123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree, it needs to end now, and furthermore, he has the right not to be strung along like that. He deserves the truth, so be honest and tell him that you do not wish to pursue any sort of relationship with him. You do not owe him any explanation why, just state the fact and wish him all the best.
2006-12-04 01:47:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard but just be blunt and forward, tell him you don't want to talk to him or pursue any type of thing with him. Guys like him will ignore hints, lie to themselves that it's not a hint, so the sooner you tell him the better.
2006-12-04 01:52:26 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what u feel and think..
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2006-12-04 01:49:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋