I am a christian woman. I also come from a christian family. My brother brought his girlfriend and her daughters over my house. The oldest daughter brought a book of either wiccan or witchcraft, I can't tell the difference but it gave me the creeps. I have an open mind, but I just got creeped out. Am I overreacting, or should I say something to my brother about this?
2006-12-03 17:29:16 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You do sound more open-minded than most. I agree that it would help if you knew a little more about what she was reading. While not of your faith, what is in the book is probably not what you think is in there. Wicca isn't against Christianity. It is simply different from it.
If she brought the book to your home then I think she was looking for a reaction. I think it best not to feed into that. She will just dig her heels in deeper. Many teenagers are exploring neo-pagan faiths, but many of them don't stick around long. If you are patient and loving towards her she will be more likely to respond rather than close off.
The book was probably about a Neo-Wiccan path. These are two unbiased sites describing Wicca:
http://www.religioustolerance.org/witchcra.htm
http://religiousmovements.lib.virginia.edu/nrms/wicca.html
Wicca isn't a religion that worships Satan. It has many very good ideals. If she is simply looking for a path with good ideals, perhaps you can show her (by example) that your path also has them. Many teens also like Wicca because it is tolerant of other religions. I know that some sects of Christianity also have tolerance. She may not know that. Anyway, take heart in knowing that many teens who explore neo-pagan religions usually don't stick around. If this is the case, be there for her if/when she chooses to look into your religion. Having an open relationship with her now will keep the door open for you to be the one she turns to later.
2006-12-03 22:35:27 · answer #1 · answered by Witchy 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
As the forming Christian religion took many of its rites and rituals from the Pagan Religion to try and convert them to pure Christianity with mixed results you would find much in common with it. except for the name changes of the dieties.but that can be changed in your mind.And thats wicca or witchcraft.
You are overreacting because of the Catholic Church calling these religions SATAN worshipers and othe bad names. when not very many fully converted but practiced a dual religion system . the problem does not lie with the Pagans or Witchs but with the Christian Church that keep the rites and rituals even after barring them from the Church.
Even the Jews have strict rules to follow if they have to stay at a pagans house while traviling. But can stay without trouble or needing cleansing afterwards as most Pagans were people that lived to far from a city with a different religion.They worship the forces of nature. That they have to work with to grow crops and raise animals for Christians to eat.
You can if you want to say somethng to your brother. but it will only cause friction between the two of you.
I started out as a Christian but found it or the church i was attening to be dull and not answering the questions that i had and started studing Paganism and Witchcraft my self . Can now follo most of the harder passages of the Bible. with greater understanding of the roots of the verses.
All religions started out as Pagan religions. Starting with SUN worship and Nature worship.
2006-12-04 01:58:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try finding out about the religion before you overreact. Wicca is a earth centered religion. We believe in a goddess and a god. also we have a reed that states "An' it harm none, do as ye will." It may just be that the daughter is questioning and searching for what views she holds to be true.
Here is a site that may help you.
http://www.religioustolerance.org/wic_intr.htm
2006-12-04 01:46:43 · answer #3 · answered by paganrosemama 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you try being open minded for once. Quit being afraid of your tight little christian surroundings and appreciate people for being different. Do you even know anything about this daughter and who she is? Doesn't the bible preach something about judging a character before you know them? Well if it doesn't say that its no wonder I am an athiest. Start by accepting other peoples religions and beliefs before you start getting creepy. I mean what is she going to do cast a spell on you? I think its christians that do the casting or lets say brainwashing.
2006-12-04 01:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by danielschmidt94521 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋
You're overreacting. His daughter is hoping that you react because she's seeking attention and identity. We all are and adopting a religion that will push the buttons of christian traditionalists is a sure-fire way of getting that attention and identity. The best thing would be if she or anyone else brought it up to you to just treat it as if someone said they were playing a video game -- interestnig but harmless stuff.
2006-12-04 01:32:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
How old is this girl? Why would you say something to your brother and not directly to the mother or girl? Asking for respect and showing a non judging attitude is very acceptable behavior. Your home is your haven. What goes on outside of your home is not in your control. What does go on in your home is a matter of people showing honor and respect. I am sure she meant no harm. But for you to say nothing is misleading and sending the wrong message about your beliefs and home.
2006-12-04 01:51:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's your house and if there is something with which you do not feel comfortable in your house, you have a right to express your reservations or discontent. You are not overreacting. Just do it lovingly and gently, without judgment or condescension, and with mutual respect.
But know why you are making this request, namely, that as a Christian, you've made certain commitments in your life, one of them may be to maintain a home pleasing unto God. Such a book is occultic in nature and contrary to your religious beliefs and you'd rather not have it in your home.
2006-12-04 01:45:30 · answer #7 · answered by im3ngs 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Well if you got creeped out you weren't over-reacting, her religious views clearly upset you, but you shouldn't go behind her back and talk to your brother, either you should just pray for both of them, or talk to her about it. She may not be a bad person and you don't have to dislike her because of her beliefs. Just try to be kind and loving, and be patient with your brother.
2006-12-04 01:33:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If she brought it to your house, your Brother, and his Girlfriend probably know about it.
Wicca is not a Cult, Wicca is not Devil Worship.
Don't worry about it.
FAQs on What Wicca is
http://www.witchvox.com/va/dt_va.html?a=usfl&c=white&id=1938
What Wicca is NOT
http://www.mdpagans.com/wiccaisnot.html
2006-12-04 13:15:38 · answer #9 · answered by AmyB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a Christian and I am not bothered by that stuff. But you know what? Its your house and I think you have the right to say what goes in it. I think if its comfortable you should just say, "bro you know I love you. But tell Samantha to leave the broom at home."
2006-12-04 01:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋