What does it matter if I cut myself, or even if I kill myself? No one who's actually met me cares, so why should random people on the internet be bothered by it?
2006-12-03 17:15:54 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
You are in a site called, "answers"..where willing people are here that WANT to help you..compassionate, kind people, who have been there, and love their fellow man/woman....we want to help...with the hopes that maybe our kindness will touch the heart of someone when no one else might have listened...I care..I can't stand to see any of God's children suffer...my prayers are with you...maybe the people you have met that don't care, are the reasons you are crying for attention by cutting...Please, you need to get Jesus in your life, and you'll never be alone again..
2006-12-03 18:43:09 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this, do you care? If I were to post the same question, can you honestly say that you would read it without thinking about me? You would be concerned, even if its just a little bit. Think of why you would be concerned. No one should hurt themselves. But they do because they are going through things that they think others don't understand. And because the don't understand, they don't care. People who hurt themselves just want to know that people care. They want the peace of mind knowing that they are not invisible. Your not invisible. Actually, I find it better to know that there are strangers who care. I see it this way, someone who doesn't know me knows I exist. Just some food for thought. Hit me up if you want to chat. I can tell you why ur life matters to me.
2006-12-03 17:33:27 · answer #2 · answered by Andigurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because Caitlyn,
I am Matthew, and you matter to me. Your are a person, an unique individual, and to me you are a daughter of God and as such you have divinity inside you.
As a fellow child of God you are my sister and I care for my family.
I do not know what is triggering your pain and struggles, but if I did I bet at least some of them I have had, not all and not in the specific way you have, but similar enough that I could relate.
Please e-mail me if you want to discuss the details (no not the names of people, just the situations) then I may be better able to suggest ways to help. I know pain, I have had scars on my wrist's and I have lost friends to suicide and I do not want to lose any more this include you.
PLEASE, and Caitlyn I will be praying for you... you may indeed probably do feel lonely right now, but know you are not alone.
E-mail me and I will check my e-mail tomorrow.
God Bless, and HUGS !!!!
Your Brother,
Matthew
2006-12-03 17:30:25 · answer #3 · answered by M.Emmett 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Compassion to another living being is divine gift of nature in birth to all of us. Caring for others is the expression of Compassion. Every body cares for another human being in suffering. You will find this when there is a calamity or accident, people rush to help without asking. You should not take that as a botheration.
2006-12-03 17:25:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brahmanyan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it' is more likely that you just think that ppl don't care about you, but they really do.
It's always important to go on, because if you go on, things can get better, if you don't things will never get better.
Sometimes ppl are wrong about things. In this case, you are wrong, ppl do care about you.
If you are the one in a billion person where ppl don't care about you, you are just around the wrong ppl.
If life is pretty good, we have to help take care of others, right? At the very least, we are responsible to care for ourselves. If you are cutting yourself, you need to get help, because you are not taking proper care of yourself.
In fact the very idea of cutting yourself or worse seems like a way to hurt other people in addition to yourself. Like you are lashing out.
If you still feel like nobody cares about you, try volunteering to help others. I think you will see that you are very much needed and cared for.
2006-12-03 18:48:40 · answer #5 · answered by aperson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its human nature even though people say the don't care the truth is that people do but they have a weird way of showing. life is hard but we cannot let the hardness and heavy load of life get to us. u have to fight and be so Strong that nothing could Bering u down or let u hUrt ur self.
2006-12-03 18:04:35 · answer #6 · answered by answer man 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is called compassion for your fellow human being . we as humans need to feel for all humans and care if they hurt themselves . please if you are doing the cutting seek help and advice from a professional . there is people out here that care about you even though we don't know you.
2006-12-03 17:24:13 · answer #7 · answered by gingerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you ever heard of a show called America's Most Wanted, and how it came into being? Why does it matter to me what you think? Everybody IS different, you take out your frustrations on yourself.....some ppl take it out on another person.
2006-12-03 17:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Tracy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I want to meet you, simply because you're smart enough, insightful enough to ask that question.
I hate our species, but I love the individuals I've known, no matter ho horribly they've treated me.
IM me or email me - I would like to meet you, and prove that I do care.
With love,.
-dh
2006-12-03 17:19:51 · answer #9 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you're right, it should be every persons choice to do whatever the freakin' heck they want to do to themselves. but there are the judgmental people in the society, especially those religious folk who put their morals onto others. personally i believe in high morals. but that is for myself. i do not care for what others do, as long as it does not effect others in a negative way, so go ahead cut yourself all you want.
2006-12-03 17:18:32 · answer #10 · answered by David 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋