I'm going out with this boy, he's really cute and all, but his mom HATES me! He loves me, and his mom is getting in the way! We almost had our first kiss in the summer on a romantic beach at sunset and SHE ruined it!! I'm afraid...I mean, even her FACE scares me! I dunno what to do! It is just..CREEPY! Everywhere we go SHE is there! Wow.... Please help me...I'm really desperate. HE has nothing to do with it either!
2006-12-03 16:43:35 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, I'm kinda shy...I am young, but he is the only boy I love! Sure, a whole bunch of other boys are crushing on me...But my boyfriend is..Well...The only one!
2006-12-03 16:57:56 · update #1
Well,20, I wanna well ya know...But the one guy is right...Imagine...
2006-12-03 17:02:42 · update #2
Aww if you like him so much, then put up with his mom.. try to go on dates alone.. yano like dinner and stuff .. she shouldn't have anything to do with your relationship, maybe have him talk to her about it?
2006-12-03 16:46:03 · answer #1 · answered by noname446 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok sweetheart, first of all, you need to find out why your guy's mom doesn't like you. No matter how creepy she is, you need to sit down and talk with her to show your maturity. Being the adult that she is, she should respect this and see that you actually care about her son. Open lines of communication are key in any relationship, and especially in this situation, since dreamboy's mom has already developed an unfair opinion of you. Things to think about as possible reasons why she doesn't trust you:
1. There is a big age gap between you and her son
2. It's her youngest/only son, which makes it harder to let go of him
3. She is an only parent, and doesn't want to lose the only other man in her family
Hope this helps, and good luck :)!!!
2006-12-04 00:52:34 · answer #2 · answered by nick n 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will probably come down to maturity and age. So if you are young, there will be plenty of other guys for you. If you don't like that, then you can always "try" and ignore the mother without getting in any more trouble.
2006-12-04 00:46:23 · answer #3 · answered by ryrysofly11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ash his mom why she hates u.and then tell her that u love her son and that he loves you and you would never hurt him. and ask her to leave u guys alone nicley.it will be hard to talk to her but u might be able to get through to her. when she tells u why she hates you try to resolve it with her, so shes sees that your right for her son and your not the bad person she thinks u are.or if u r to nervouse to approach her ask ur b/f if he would ask his mom why she hates u so much.anyway good luck!i wish u and ur b/f the best!!!:)
2006-12-04 00:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by roxygirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow im sorry that she hates you. that really sucks. i gues you guys can kinda sneak around? i dont know. or sit down and try to talk to her about what problem (s) she has with u. good luck!
2006-12-04 00:46:39 · answer #5 · answered by hockeyGG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of the relationship quick....it only gets worse from here.
2006-12-04 00:46:07 · answer #6 · answered by Miguel B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly if you can't stop seeing his mom just think about when going to have sex with him... Not going to be fun
2006-12-04 00:53:06 · answer #7 · answered by gfatboy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to the mom with your boyfriend about it and tell her you need space with him.
2006-12-04 00:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Daggy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her and if that doesn't work poison her
2006-12-04 01:38:22 · answer #9 · answered by Jake T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋