2006-12-03 16:38:30 · 15 answers · asked by jzen 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"All" guys don't do anything -- ok, except maybe think about sex all the time. But otherwise, they're all different. Some make looks their primary concern, others personality, others intelligence, others something else.
And some guys like thin girls, some like plump girls -- and everything in between and at both extremes.
No matter what your shape, size, color, measurements, personality, intelligence, eye color, whatever -- there are sure to be guys out there that are attracted to you. Just take care of yourself, and BE yourself, and you'll find them.
:)
2006-12-03 16:42:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
1. Yes, some guys do, personally the personality means more to me although looks is important as a first impression.
2. It's certainly not a sin, in fact I think a woman that is somewhat but not too plump (say up to 200 lbs) DOES look good!
3. So why do you ask?
2006-12-03 16:45:17 · answer #2 · answered by clueless_nerd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not so much 'instead of' as 'more than'. Men's sexual interests are wired more to their visual perceptions than women's are. It's just the way our brains are built. That said, there are plenty of men out there who go for plump girls, but sadly fewer who are comfortable admitting it to their friends. Being a plump girl isn't a sin, but if you can lose some of the weight, you'll be healthier with a longer life expectancy and have a lot more choices when it comes to men. A lot of those additional choices will be shallow assholes however, so you have to weigh your options and be sure of what your looking for ultimately.
2006-12-03 16:44:35 · answer #3 · answered by Guelph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys do not want a girl who is plump. This is not because a guy is going by looks but an over weight girl - especially grossly over weight sends a message to the guys. This message is take the girl doesn't care about herself, has emotional disorders and is lazy. What guy ( or girl), wants someone like that in their life? Diabetes, high blood pressure, strokes, heart attack, heart disease, aneurysms, etc., etc. - Why would you want to fall in love with a human time-bomb for?
2006-12-03 16:45:35 · answer #4 · answered by guraqt2me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly ive realised that its not always the looks that im attracted to... i mean ive dates beautiful girls and well... i guess u can say average... i had way more in common with the average girls then i did with the beautiful girls. and being plump isnt a sin being really really fat is a sin.
2006-12-03 16:44:36 · answer #5 · answered by Dont get Infected 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for those of us who haven't had good relationships its clear that looks are not everything. obviously men are visual creatures and looks attract a guy to a girl, but there are several of my "plump" friends i would date in a heartbeat because they are so great to hang out with and i know they are genuine.
"if you wanna be happy for the rest of your life never make a pretty woman your wife"
-sam cooke
2006-12-03 16:45:11 · answer #6 · answered by alex l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult males do no longer technique issues the way women do. They perform on senses no longer emotions. If interestingly stable it might experience stable. women bypass by employing emotions The eyes the smile the hair then the physique and voice, even scent performs an significant section. besides everyone knows while a guy is arroused each and all of the blood rushes to their strategies placed in the direction of their physique abour 6 inches under their naval.
2016-10-13 23:16:45 · answer #7 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest...physical attraction is the initial form of attraction. What attracts people is the concept of beauty which is secretly translated into the concept of health. A healthy body, not too thin not too fat, but somewhere in the middle. A person can look past this, but its a constant biological battle. Its hard to love someone that you are not physically attracted to.
2006-12-03 16:43:43 · answer #8 · answered by Laughing Man Copycat 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, a honest guy sees what is behind the body. Looks never last. Trust, respect and love do. Keep looking, you will find him!
2006-12-03 16:42:12 · answer #9 · answered by mvsopen 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Big women are beautiful. It's only a sin if you work it the wrong way.
2006-12-03 16:41:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋