ok back in feb i cheated on my gf with my ex and that went on till may. found out in july my ex was pregnant. my ex says it happened around april and that the father was at the time ex. my gf doesnt believe me when i say its not mine but the thing is me and my ex never had sex we only dated. my gf thinks there is no way i cud date two girls at the same time and never do either of them for 4 months. so she thinks its mine. what should i do?
2006-12-03 16:36:46 · 8 answers · asked by slaphappy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I DID NOT HAVE SEX WITH MY EX.
2006-12-03 16:43:46 · update #1
You are a total jerk to go and cheat on your girlfriend. I think you should break up with your girlfriend since you don't love her enough to stay only with her. Take some time alone and ask yourself what do you look for in a mate and eventually you will find a girl that makes you fall so much in love with that you won't go and cheat on her again. And for your pregnant ex, if you are sure the baby is not yours, then just stay and support her as a friend, you don't have to take responsibility if you don't want to because it's not yours.
2006-12-03 16:44:10 · answer #1 · answered by pattycatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to make the offer to take the test to prove that you are not the father. But, it does not seem that your gf is really worth the trouble doesn't it. These tests are expensive and it seems ridiculous since you cheated on her so long anyway. Make the choice first, to determine if she is worth the trouble before incurring the expense. If not cut your loses and move on. She will never believe you without the test. You breached her trust completely.
2006-12-04 00:45:19 · answer #2 · answered by PZ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a paternity test and if it is yours, be a man, and make arrangements to take care of the child financially (at minimum) and emotionally for atleast the next 18 years...
2006-12-04 00:41:28 · answer #3 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds as though this relationship is over. your girlfriend has been hurt very badly. and that's understandable. i would say just pick yourself up and start over again. turn over a new page in your life and chalk this up to life experience.
2006-12-04 00:42:21 · answer #4 · answered by rubyred 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man up and take responsibility for your actions, regardless if the child is yours or not.
2006-12-04 00:41:21 · answer #5 · answered by entropy1976 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell yourself whatever you have to so you can sleep at night, coward. When the DNA test comes back and names you as the father, welcome to child support.
2006-12-04 00:40:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should evalulate your behavior in life.
2006-12-04 00:38:40 · answer #7 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go get the yest done to prove it.
2006-12-04 00:39:19 · answer #8 · answered by eaglestraces123 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋