he never helped me with the kids i stuck by him when he was on drugs he got off the drugs but now he wont work and im burned out i met another guy whos willing to marry me and support me and my three kids but the bad thing is my baby daddy wont leave what should i do serious answers only please
2006-12-03 16:32:30 · 7 answers · asked by Nat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ive told him that i dont love him anymore he wasted so long not doing nothing ive took care of him and im so tired but he just dont get it he think its all a joke
2006-12-03 16:41:15 · update #1
i know for a fact that he never cheated but he never had a woman to treat him good and i think hes scared to be on his own hes 12 years older than me and i hate him for not being there for his kids
2006-12-03 16:44:07 · update #2
he stay with me i have my own house and i pay all the bills he never bought the kids nothing my oldest is 8
2006-12-03 16:50:23 · update #3
take the kids and leave
2006-12-03 16:34:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really sure he loves you or is using you? You really should leave him if you don't love him. If he loved you and the children; he would get out and work. The man you are with ,can't stop you form just walking out the door. Leave.This man is no good to you or the children.
Do you love the other man? If so, you should be with him. Don't go to him only to get away form the other. It would be better to live on your own if that were the case.
Good luck. You and your children deserve real happiness.
2006-12-03 16:40:18 · answer #2 · answered by vennie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he won't leave then you need to leave. Please take the time to tell hom how you feel before you walk out the door. From what I have read I think that you are sending mixed mesages becasue you have stuck around for so long.
2006-12-03 16:36:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SHOULD LET HIM KNOW THAT YOU ARE WANT HIM
OUT OF YOUR LIFE. AND IF THINK IT A JOKE THEN PACK
YOUR BAGS AND TAKE THE KIDS AND GET OUT HE WILL
SEE THAT IT OVER. SOMETIME YOUR ACTIONS SPEAK
LOUDER THEN WORDS. HE MAY FEEL THAT SINCE HE
CLEAN UP HIS ACT AND THAT GOOD THAT YOU OWN
HIM.. HE NEED TO GET A JOB. AND LIVE ON HIS OWN
BUT AS LONG AS YOU PUT UP WITH THIS HE WILL
DO AS HE DOING NOW NOTHING.
2006-12-03 16:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best if you can work it out with the dad if he is reformed...adding another man into the equation can really make things a headache down the road. i don't have all the info but based on what is given to me that is what my opinion is.
2006-12-03 16:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by Lucky L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u should tell the kid father that is time to move on.
2006-12-03 16:36:20 · answer #6 · answered by lil6luetrou6le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this sounds cruel, but if he really never leaves, then call the police, see what they can do to help you get rid of this guy.
2006-12-03 16:38:11 · answer #7 · answered by FairGround 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋