He's not religious so how come he wants to save himself until wedding night? We just met over the matchmaking site. He lives in a small town and is looking for a wife.
2006-12-03 16:31:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, some people choose to not get intimate with someone he truly doesn't love and this man may just be the type of person. It doesn't matter if it's a female or a male, not choosing to do such a close, personal act with someone else is a choice everyone has. Maybe he hasn't found anyone that's worth doing that yet and maybe he found it in you. Give him a chance and look at him for who he is inside without the gorgeous face and not for what he has done or not done yet.
2006-12-03 16:37:58 · answer #1 · answered by pattycatty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps he just hasn't met the right kind of girl. Why do you think a guy HAS to lose his virginity in his teens or 20's? You are extremely shallow for rejecting him because he's a virgin. You should be happy instead. I suggest you let him go because obviously he still hasn't found a nice girl.
2006-12-03 16:34:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I can kind of understand why you lost interest but try to look at the sincerity in it and all the unnecessary drama that will be avoided by him saving himself. If you stay you could very well be his first love. And with that comes dedication, honor, and loyalty. Girl, grab him and keep him before someone else does. He is inexperienced...you can shape him and mold hit to better suit you. Look at it that way and use that to fall in love.
2006-12-03 16:36:59 · answer #3 · answered by shellese2 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you are totally nuts..i see nothing wrong with any person being a virgin and waiting til their wedding night..i think that is the most romantic and sweet thing..what makes it so terrible for you to lose interest? just because he isnt experienced? unfortunately, thats pretty shallow minded of you..you should base a relationship on love, not sex..
2006-12-03 16:38:31 · answer #4 · answered by Nikkib 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wow! why would you lose interest in a man who wants to give that one special thing to the one woman he wants to be with the rest of his life?! here are a few good reasons NOT to lose interest: 1. no possible std's. 2. no AIDS risk. 3. no million baby mama's. 4. you get to teach him how to please you exactly as you like to be pleased. 5. he is obviously a sweet, kind hearted man who sees more in a woman other than what position he can get her in within the first 3 dates.
wow...those are some good reasons
2006-12-03 16:40:44 · answer #5 · answered by TaureanAngel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think him being a virgin is admirable. Especially in this day and age. Would you find him more interesting if he slept with every girl he sees and had no morals at all? You should ask yourself what the problem really is for you.
2006-12-03 16:37:38 · answer #6 · answered by fungirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to do devirginize a guy in his mid, late twenties/thirties! What a turn-on and I bet the sex would be hot, he is probably hungering for it like a wild tiger! You should give him a chance and praise that he's waited for the right woman, that's a rarity nowadays.
2006-12-03 16:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Blondie4u 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
small town people are different, doesn't make them worse or better they are just different. its a good thing hes still a virgin at least you know you wont catch anything from him. you shouldn't discard him on that alone, just cause he hasn't done it doesn't mean he wont be good at it. specially if you think you can marry this guy just think you can teach him exactly how you like it.
2006-12-03 16:37:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just dont understand y u sed lose interest in him over such a small thing??? atleast he is honest and thats a rare quality in otday's world. u americans worry over such superficial things! get a life, look at the person within!
2006-12-03 16:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
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2006-12-03 16:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋