I am a muslim girl of 19yrs going out wid a guy from last 8months.Whenever we met before in the starting he never used 2 touch me.Then he slowly started holding hand n stuff like .And now he feels to kiss on my lips. i told him we can do all this after marraige. im feeling guilty about it..
Does this mean that he has no respect 4 me so he touchd n tried 2 smooch me
N now he promised me he wont do anything which i will fell guilty.
By stopping him wil he like me more or will he go away from me?
2006-12-03 16:28:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well f you told him that and he respects that that means he really loves you and respects you
2006-12-03 16:39:50 · answer #1 · answered by ♥La Dulce Chica♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he really likes you, he'll wait around. However, a lot of guys I know like to have a bit of physical contact from their girl. I'm not saying that you have to give in to what he wants, but I think there needs to be a little bit of giving from both you and him. If you're not wanting to have any kind of physical contact, he may start to think that you don't like him as much as you say you do.
2006-12-04 00:33:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im assuming that this all started with ur religious beliefs. I think you should talk to him about ur beliefs. Usaually 8 months is when u start becoming comfortable with ur partner and you get more physical so that doesnt mean he has no respect for you.
2006-12-04 00:33:07 · answer #3 · answered by Papa Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, 8 months and you wont even let him hold your hand?
People believe in many different things, anyways if he really likes you he would stay with you no matter what.
2006-12-04 00:32:58 · answer #4 · answered by [quarantine] 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in a great trouble.......
The disaster, can strike anytime, so be careful.....
So, my advice is to, get you away, for a month or so, so that you can manage the same hall as before.....
be careful until the marriage.......
also check whether the person has HIV....
2006-12-04 00:34:43 · answer #5 · answered by krlional_robin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel right about this relation
Better drop him
Quick
Because you are doomed
Good luck
2006-12-04 00:33:59 · answer #6 · answered by profa60 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him kiss and stuff should let him touch but sex should come after marrige otherwise thel get wat they want and walk out i am a guy but not a asshole like most
2006-12-04 00:36:41 · answer #7 · answered by donivan_12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋