ive been friends with this guy for about 5 years, and made out with him afew times. but just last week i spent the night at his house and it went farther than i thought it would and we wound up haveing sex. i dont want that to ruin our friendship, or has it allready. seince then we have hardly talked. what should i do? is our frindship ruined? do you think he still likes me? im so confused right now and dont know what to do.
2006-12-03 16:20:08 · 13 answers · asked by death_of_faries 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well right now im sure hes scared cuz u have been friends for so long and now hes scared also that he may have ruined the relationship by sleeping with u , so u just need to call him and start a general question and dont avoid what happened but dont talk about it over the phone or by txting go see him and sit down and talk about it.. it might actually been what all your friends have been waiting for as for u two gettin together.. so bring it up in person and it well help to compliment and if ur not feeling him.. the truth shall set u free.. but yeah.. u gotta ask.. in person
2006-12-03 16:24:35 · answer #1 · answered by burnin_inphx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to clear the air with him. Ask him straight out. No reason to keep worrying about it. You need your peace of mind back. He may be as confused as you are. Won't know till you ask him. Your friendship has changed; but it is hard to loose a friendship totally after that amount of time even after what happened. .
You had the courage to ask here. Keep it up, go to your friend, and do the same thing with him.
2006-12-03 16:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by vennie s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he just using you to have sex w/ him. or maybe i was wrong but you never know.. My advice iz to have a talk w/ him about your relationship w/ him and tell him how you feel about it. If he listen to u and wanting the same thing, give him a chance to make up all the stuff that you guys both created. If he just dont listen and dont feel the same way no more, i say dump him and move on w/ your life.<3 hope everything work out.
2006-12-03 16:24:51 · answer #3 · answered by lil6luetrou6le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only thing i know to do is talk to him about it. he may be staying away from you because he realized he may want more then just friends. if he didnt like you then why would he have kissed you all those time and why would he sleep with you? could of been because he felt feelings for you or could be cuz he has known you for so long he was curious as to how things would turn out. either way, the only way to know if things are ruined or ok is to talk to him about it.
2006-12-03 16:27:50 · answer #4 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would make it a point to talk to him about it, not some big, heavy conversation but the bottom line is that you can't change what happened and the best way to clear the air is to bring it up and out in the open with him.
2006-12-03 16:24:05 · answer #5 · answered by dreamer1414 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aks him the same thing u asked here i think u would get the right answer from him then here
im not trying to be roud or any thing but some of ppl who answer ur questions take it as a joke
plz ask him and don't stress to much cause it ruins ur health.
good luck asking him
2006-12-03 16:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have pushed it passed friendship. Now, you need to find out if you have a relationship or a one nighter. Good luck... if you like this guy, you better do something quickly before he takes your ackwardness as you are rejecting him. He may try to act like nothing happened, but he knows you two cannot go back to as before....
2006-12-03 16:29:45 · answer #7 · answered by A friend of Bill W 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-13 23:16:12 · answer #8 · answered by porix 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you finally gave your "friend" exactly what he has been waiting five years for. He no longer has any use for you.
Let this be a warning to all ladies:
Real men are not your friends!
If we pretend to be your friend, it is only because we are waiting for you to have a moment of weakness.
Only a gay man can be your friend!
2006-12-03 16:25:32 · answer #9 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's ruined alright
2006-12-03 16:22:33 · answer #10 · answered by j -cold 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋