I don't have a boyfriend and i don't want one! I hate the clingyness that comes with it!!
And if I like a guy, if he likes me back I stop liking him......
2006-12-03 16:13:36 · 8 answers · asked by Alexis 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't want a boyfriend either. Actually, I don't want to date any more guys who are wrong for me and sadly, most of them are. Its fun having freedom and just enjoying the pursuit and flirting and that's it.
There's nothing wrong with being selfish and enjoying your life on your own instead of sharing it with someone else.
2006-12-03 16:18:08 · answer #1 · answered by noelikesrocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a relief i found someone like me, im at the same stage and level
i hate people clinging to me, confessing love and sincerity to me, i hate commitment
or for short we havent met our match yet
we see inferior qualities that are not up to our standards, but when we do see someone that we would really really give our devotion too ,then thats it, for now you dont see anybody who could fulfill you or make you wanting something, you have issues inside your self esteem, your identity, of who you are and until this issues are not yet resolved, your mind knows that you cannot possibly venture and go on trying relationships
point is youre not yet ready, or you love being single, and that for now you have better things to do than falling in love, a part of this attitude is because you are afraid of rejection but all things will sort themselves out, if you dont want clingyness it is your right!
2006-12-04 00:32:21 · answer #2 · answered by haringmarumo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was exactly the same way. I in truth was afraid of it, I didnt trust in love. Then one day I met a man that I was able to fall in love with.
Someday there will be someone that can break the steel wall down thats protecting you heart. Theres nothing wrong with guarding your heart though. But yeah I definatly was the same way all through middle school up until my senior year.
2006-12-04 00:18:35 · answer #3 · answered by Catelyn O 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends...... if you dont want to be in love because of all the B.S that comes with it then no its not unusual. but if you've never been in love and you just dont want to give it a chance then it is a little unusual, dont you want to have someone to share special things with? someone to worship you and someone to be crazy with? maybe youre still too young to settle down? who knows? i think youre fine. if that helps
2006-12-04 00:20:34 · answer #4 · answered by nightyzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are either young or you have been hurt or you are afraid of commitment! It is ok if you are a playa but one day your looks will fade and you will be alone! Women fade faster then men! Some women even find older men more attractive!!!
2006-12-04 00:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Andrew P 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It is unusual , but not uncommon from my experiences.
2006-12-04 00:16:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think so, yes but it's really your choice. It's your life! Good Luck!
2006-12-04 00:16:50 · answer #7 · answered by kewtber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not unusual at all...there is a reason...
2006-12-04 00:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋