Do you just hate it when your parents, or it doesn't even have to be your parents, just someone who tells you what to do all the time, and practically controls your life!!! I know they just want what is best for me, but my goodness!!!!! Lay off a little, you know!!! They are so werid about me and my music (it is not that bad), they are really really really werid about staying up, not even staying up for a movie, but for my homework that I have to get done!!!! Does anyone else have this problem? Or is it just me? If you do, what do you do about it? I'm a christian and trying not to sin against them, but how much can I really take!!?? I really need some advice. Please, I'll take anything. Especially I need prayer. Thanks : )
2006-12-03 16:11:06 · 10 answers · asked by ambey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Obey your parents in the Lord. You are not facing anything that anyother young person hasn't faced. We all did. Most of us older folks feel we are protecting our children from the elements of the world because we have already experienced some of the effects of disobeying our parents.
We all rebel against our parents then when we get to be parents ourselves then we actually realize what the old foggies were trying to teach us.
Been there done that and pray my child doesn't follow my footsteps of the past. I will keep you in my prayers. Try reading your Bible if you have one it will answer most of your concerns. Be patient with your parents. Accept their advice unless it is going to be harmful to you. Yet you can still maintain your independence. Talk to your parents, don't argue with them. I am sure that ya'll can come up with realistist agreements that all can cope with.
2006-12-03 16:22:18 · answer #1 · answered by bro_ken128 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. you need to talk to them. it sounds like your a teenager so your in high school. Most schools can give you weekly reports. They are probably worried about you because they want you to do good in school the next day so no sleeping late and hw. Make a deal with them. You will turn in the report weekly to your parents (set certain standards for it.) if it is to their satisfaction you will be able to study when you like and sleep when you like. if something is wrong with it (like it doesnt fit the standards or you dont turn it in then you do there routine for the week) this way you and your parents will both be getting what they want. the best for you. Just talk to them about it
2006-12-04 00:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, I am christian too. I was forced to live with my aunts and my God I was under their supervision every time. I couldn't do this or that without being blamed indirectly...God it sucked so much...I am a grad student and a foreginer and I am trying to do good in school and try to stay my breaks at their house, but it is hell. I am now considering getting a job at Wlamart or whatever and move by myself.if you are over 18 hell yeah move out.
2006-12-04 00:15:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know exactly what you mean!!! just BITE YOUR TONGUE! there are more important things to change in this world than your parents, who really do love you. and it only gets worse if they're mad. Good luck!
2006-12-04 00:20:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U are stressin. Take a deep breath. It will pass. Life is tough.
2006-12-04 00:16:31 · answer #5 · answered by Papa Bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same exact problem.
its like cmon you made your mistakes now let me make mine. i mean we need to learn from our mistake parents cant keep us locked up so we dont make any.
2006-12-04 00:14:09 · answer #6 · answered by untouchedangel06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okey honey it happens to me too
even though i am 18 they still give me orders
2006-12-04 00:19:45 · answer #7 · answered by Hally berry 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wonder when your children some day say this about you ? lighten up, they are concerned & good reason to be...you sound a bit rebellious...drama...
2006-12-04 00:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHAT WOULD JESUS DO. now think about that
My point exactly
2006-12-04 00:21:50 · answer #9 · answered by Great one 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me
2006-12-04 00:14:00 · answer #10 · answered by gfatboy101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋