My boyfriend and I hung out at his apartment today. When I went to leave, he wouldn't even give my a hug or a kiss. I practically had to beg to get a hug out of him and even then it was only a little hug. I guess I just want to know if this is a bad sign that he is getting tired of seeing me or is it something else entirely...?
2006-12-03 16:06:00 · 15 answers · asked by goshen_chic 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore Nikki, she MAY be right but most likely not. If you have to 'nip sh*t in the bud' then the problems run way too deep. Some guys, like me, just aren't into that. I'd rather sit down and have an intelligent discussion over tea than roll around with you. I mean, girls are always complaining guys are too physical- maybe it means he was more interested in seeing you and less about getting on top of you. Only you can decide which of these it is, but keep this in mind. I've dated some girls who I wouldn't hug and kiss because it was simply too important to them- it turned me off.
2006-12-03 16:11:03 · answer #1 · answered by fslcaptain737 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is hugging adn kissing, showing physcial affections a normal part of your relationship? If yes, then maybe there was a problem that you should talk to him about. Otherwise, many guys find it hard to the whole kiss and hug thing.
2006-12-03 16:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like someone said, does he normally hug and kiss you goodnight? Why would he have a problem with that? I hear that some guys dont like being affectionate with their girlfriends, i think thats really stupid.
2006-12-03 16:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by ernie_casarez 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that is kind of a bad sign. My advice is to sit him down and have a talk w/ him, you never know anything unless u get the answer straight from him.
2006-12-03 16:19:55 · answer #4 · answered by lil6luetrou6le 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm dead serious - next time he goes to get some from you, make sure he's practically begging. Nip that sh*t in the bud now before it gets much worse. He's training you to accept that behavior; don't let him.
2006-12-03 16:08:21 · answer #5 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all depends on how long you been seeing each other, have you gotten in a recent fight? did you say something to make him mad at you? if you answered no to those questions then maybe it is possible he is getting tired of you or that god forbid he is seeing someone else
2006-12-03 16:12:02 · answer #6 · answered by truckinitup27 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a bad sign dont take that crap from him dont talk to him for at least a few days and then when he calls you dont answer his call for at least a week. dont be all clingy cause then he thinks he's got the power and thats never good.
2006-12-03 16:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by n4il_p0lish2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know u should ask if he had something on his mind or what was wrong it may not have been a bad sign he might have just been thinking about something
2006-12-03 16:10:36 · answer #8 · answered by craz4horses 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes going through a phase and he has something on his mind just talk to him about it. GOOD LUCK :-)
2006-12-03 16:10:28 · answer #9 · answered by Precious S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he really cares about you, i suggest you leave him and look for someone better
2006-12-03 16:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by •Me• 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋