Ok here's what happened, i went to a party friday night and me and my friends were just acting stupid and making things up about ourselves like fake names, and i was just looking for a girl to hook up with, but then we went up to these girls room and i started talking to this girl, and i realized i really liked her, but i had already lied to her alot like what dorm i lived in and where i was from and other things, cuz i wasnt expecting to find a girl i really liked, and she didn't hook up with me, she just like fell asleep with my arm around her, well i can't stop thinking about her and i've got her number, but how am i gonna come out of this
i have to call her also because my frien left his jacket in her room
Ok so up there is what happened like 2 weeks ago and I called her once to get the jacket back last weekend and she was like she was going to be busy with alot of work during the week but I could call her during the weekend and get it, I know I should have talked about more....
2006-12-03 16:02:44 · 5 answers · asked by johnstockton 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
but thats basically how the conversation went since I still wasn't sure what to say, well now its 11 pm on Sunday night I didn't call her, so she finally calls me and is like the jackets in some kids room because it would be easier for me cuz its in the dorm i live in(the fake dorm I live in, which I can't get in since I dont live there) and she gave me his number so I can call him and get it I think she likes me but also this time I didn't even say anything to her except like ok so now I don't even have an excuse to call her..and I think she liked me before like when I called she was really happy but then I didn't talk about anything that time or this time so Im really messing this up but I'm still wondering if anybody has advice on what to do
2006-12-03 16:03:55 · update #1
also shes kind of a shy and studious girl if this changes anything
2006-12-03 16:04:11 · update #2
Simple answer.. Call her now and not a moment later , tell her your an immature fool , but you really dug her that night you met her and lay out the truth. Tell her it took alot of guts for you to do this and you just want to start all over again . "Ok ,lets do this again , 'Hello I"m...."
2006-12-03 16:16:26 · answer #1 · answered by eazter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you lied and had a bit of fun, but nobody likes being played for a fool! What i suggest if you really like this girl is call her up and if she's wiiling to meet than meet ifnot just chat on the phone and start over just tell her the truth. She might think you're a jackass but do it anyway cos there's nothing else you can do unless you wanna keep lying ot her and if you do that than your ego means more to you thatn she does. But ya just start over apologise prefusely and tell her who you really are and she just might really like you for it...only time will tell. Good luck, you sound like a decent guy :D who made an honest mistake
2006-12-04 00:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by tulip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her up tell her you really like her and tell her the truth.. One of two things could happen. She could be upset with you and not want to talk to you again or she could be happy that you were honest with her and would possibly like to go out with you sometime..
Either way bro if you do want to possibly see her in the future you have to come clean otherwise your just digging yourself a hole.
2006-12-04 00:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the lies will just get bigger and bigger if you don't stop it. you have to tell her the truth, apologise and be prepared for her reaction.
2006-12-04 00:07:50 · answer #4 · answered by chris s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself Man and tell her how you feel and also show her the real you!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK :-)
2006-12-04 00:08:05 · answer #5 · answered by Precious S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋