2006-12-03 15:59:14 · 8 answers · asked by Used Trash 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him
2006-12-03 16:02:23 · answer #1 · answered by Everyman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is he REALLY a stalker. I find it hard to believe any gay guy is gonna have the balls to stalk a straight guy. Their worst fear is getting beaten up or further abused....
If you tell him through a mutual friend that you are straight and don't want the extra attention, that should be sufficient.
What is he doing exactly that makes him a "gay stalker"? Does he know you're straight? Once he knows, he'll stop wasting his time - whatever he is doing.
2006-12-03 16:05:18 · answer #2 · answered by angela 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've known a couple guys who were 'stalked' by queers, and they were too nice to do anything about it. They were talked into just 'trying it to see if you like it', you know. Worst thing they ever did, now it's hanging over their heads. If this is at work, make a formal complaint to the Hr department. They take sexual harrassment VERY seriously (it's their *** if they don't). If it's not at work, make a police report that this person is stalking you and follow through with it. The worst thing you can do is nothing--this is like giving conscent to be pestered by the creep--after all, "if you didn't like it, you would have done something about it, right"?
2006-12-03 16:11:58 · answer #3 · answered by Snowball 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if your stalker isn't secretive about it (in other words, hiding in bushes and then trailing you from a distance) you should tell him directly that you don't like him that way, and then if he needs to talk about it, or you don't think he gets the message, talk with him about it...
Else, if he is secretive about it... try to talk to him, but if he won't listen or he runs when you try to approach, then you should call the police.
Hope this helps,
Aloha.
2006-12-04 16:48:39 · answer #4 · answered by Zack 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think if he knew you didnt like men he wouldnt think he had a chance with you! is there some reason he would think you were "that way'? i mean maybe at a party? you know too much to drink? jk!!! tell him in NO uncertain terms that you are ONLY a driver never a passenger hehe that should chase him away!
2006-12-03 16:09:19 · answer #5 · answered by nightyzz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you tell a girl stalker?Just tell him the same thing and in the same manner...
2006-12-03 16:05:09 · answer #6 · answered by jokersmile 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call 911.
2006-12-03 16:03:05 · answer #7 · answered by Ocean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it clear to him that it's not going to happen.
2006-12-03 16:03:43 · answer #8 · answered by bionicbookworm 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋