my boyfriend has been hitting on my best friend since i got this new frient (thats a guy) he thinks that i'm hott for this other guy and not him so whats the deal its not like i really like the other guy for more then a friend so is he just hitting on her to make me jelious or what?
2006-12-03 15:52:06 · 17 answers · asked by JADE M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesn't sound like he trusts you - drop kick him
2006-12-03 16:03:53 · answer #1 · answered by Jim 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You need to sit him down and have a serious talk about the situation. Things cannot go on like that. It's most likely that he is jealous of this relationship you have formed with a new male friends but that is no reason for him to play childish games and hit on your friend. You can't be in a relationship based on jealously and lies. You need to sort things out before it all gets out of hand. He either wants to be with you or someone else, he needs to make up his mind and so do you - what do you want out of the relationship? Talk to each other, communication is the key. Good luck.
2006-12-03 23:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
you and only you know if you really are hitting on this other guy or perposely being overly flirtatious b/c you may think he's cute or what ever, but if you not then try to watch the way you act and tone it down a bit, if you boyfriend still uses it as an excuse to hit on your friend then you know that he really digs her and he's not just doing it to make you jealous...... plus your best friend shouldn't be letting him hit on her, and yes she can control that to a point, like by acting snobby to him or just by being a ***** to him which is only okay in situations like this and if you give her permission
2006-12-03 23:57:48 · answer #3 · answered by gqrick5 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi I am not a guy but I do have advise sit him down (ur boyfriend)
and tell him I trust u why cant u trust me...........I dont fuking like this guy he is just a fuking friend! and if u cant handle that then bye bye and that u should tell him that there is no reason to hit on ur friend becuz you luv him and that u would never do that to him and try to makes things work and dont let him trick you that much to where u stopp talking to ur guy friend.
2006-12-03 23:56:41 · answer #4 · answered by Desiree 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No maybe because he thinks you like this guy so hes trying to make you feel jealous. So just straigting it out with him. And if he doesn't listen then just go out with that other guy:-) GOOD LUCK.
2006-12-03 23:57:38 · answer #5 · answered by Precious S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guys don't like it when thier girls are freinds with other guys, and for good reason: many freinds with boyfreinds turned out to be their next lay or even girlfriend.
nevertheless, if you are a strong committed couple, its not healthy to have no freinds. its just a balancing act you have to pull off until he realizes everything is cool. if he never does, then he has a problem, and he needs to resolve his trust and jealousy issues.
2006-12-03 23:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
hmph, sounds like a jealousy thing to me...this is a classic case,happens all the time,just tell him you're with him, and otherwise if that doesn't work, he doesn't have faith in you, and you should probably go with someone else then if he doesn't believe you
2006-12-04 00:03:04 · answer #7 · answered by Sephiroth 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
he doing it to make u jealous . just tell him you dont like the other guy
2006-12-03 23:55:28 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah he is going after your girlfriend. cuz he wants the both of you in the sack naked with him. cant say that i blame him, over the top actions equals over the top sex by you and your friend
2006-12-03 23:59:44 · answer #9 · answered by gfatboy101 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Is he a fudge packer like you?
2006-12-03 23:54:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he's playing games.
2006-12-03 23:53:55 · answer #11 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋