So Ive been chilling with this chick for about 3-5 months and we just been friends but a few days ago she ask me if I like 2 of her friends but I just look her in the eyes and said "no I like you actually alot". She blushed and said really!? Then we stop talking about that and decide to go to this party and all night she was with me. Sitting on my lap, dancing with me, giving each other shots... Next day she came over with my buddy to get some stuff she forgot. I really didnt get to say anythign to her because all my buddies were around and her girlfriends were around to. But what I want to ask is what should I say to her again? I dont know if she looking for a relationship because her ex was a total dick to her apparantly and it was a really mood killer because he call her at the party and she was almost crying when I walk into the room and I ask if everything was alrite and she grab me and said to him " O ya I'm with Chris right now to be more detailed" then she hung up on him.
2006-12-03 15:51:03 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She also hates her ex alot. Along with all her friends. she really came to me for comfort that night and I was glad it was me. So I didnt take advantage or anything of her when I oculd. I dunno were to start off with her...?
2006-12-03 15:52:13 · update #1
Okay...She definatly likes you...Being a female she went around asking you straight out if you liked her to save a crash upon herself.
So the question was answered and dropped,perhaps leading to her kicking herself in the *** for her reaction and not saying anymore,so she decided she was going to show you she likes you instead.
You showed her openness and honesty along with respect althrough everything,but with her coming out of a bad relationship she got use to not having respect and might of asked herself "he said he liked me"" but he is not making any moves when he is wide open to them".Which can cause confusion and having her to feel uncomfortable as she may think you thought of her differently with the way she was being with you.She might be telling herself she is an idiot she shouldn't of "came" on so strong.
It is obvious that you are comfortable with yourself and have respect for women.You are open and honest.
So what do you say now...
Be natural make conversation and find away to get close to her and see what her reaction is,as you are doing so show your concern over the call with her ex and see if everything is alright with her emotionally,if she allows you to be that close and her answer is short give her a kiss on the forehead and stroke her hair a few times(to show concern and that you do care) and ask everything ok or are you going to be ok see how she reacts.If she goes into you she trusts you and is comfy, keep the respect .If her answer is long listen to her and answer her accordingly (but I do not think you will have a problem with that).I think once you both get past this hump of the next morning thing everything will be fine and back on track as it was, perhaps with alittle more between you both(I'm not speaking sexually either).
Good Luck
2006-12-03 17:02:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont listen to any of these other people on here if they're gonna be friggin idiots like the first answer you got. You need to ask her to go out somewhere really simple with you, like maybe a walk after school or just go to the park and talk. next you need to really let her know how you feel and if you honestly mean the best for her go to any extent to show it to her. she'll love it and hopefully something will become of the two of you. let me know how this comes along and maybe i can helpo you out some more.
Hopefully this answer answers your question. your selection as best answer not only gives me points but it gives you points as well!!! Hopefully this is what you were looking for.
jerry
2006-12-03 23:57:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well obviously since her ex was a dick head she needs someone to be with herr. i don't what you should say to her next time you see her. i would just start off with a normal conversation and then get into what you wanna say to her. that seems like the easiest thing to do. soo yeahh she needs someone to be with. she probably likes you also since you guys were together at a party and were dancing together, she was on ur lap, you guys having shots together. all signs that she likes youu. butt yeah like i said normal conversation and the get into the details.
2006-12-03 23:59:19 · answer #3 · answered by laker4lyfe92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lmao that soadfan guy is 15
I just read some answer he posted.
Honestly, I'd stay away from a relationship with her for a while.
I'm kind of ashamed to admit this, but when my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, I became best friends with his best friend just to get closer to my ex.
It worked =/
So thats good for me, but not good for the guy I used.
Even if she's not doing it intentionally(I wasn't) she's probably going to use you to get back at/with him.
Who knows? Maybe I'm wrong, but thats coming from a girl's perspective.
2006-12-03 23:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by blender 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude..... dont just be a rebound for her, she sounded alright until that last part when she was on the phone w/ him. more than likely she's just looking for a lay to make him jealous...... if you really like her then your screwed...... but if your just looking to get laid and have a friend w/ tons and tons of benefits then you $MONEY$
2006-12-04 00:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by gqrick5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she just wanted to make her ex mad or jealous, or maybe it was the shots. she probably doesn't even remember saying it. just ask her.
2006-12-04 00:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by chris s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bang her, buddy
2006-12-03 23:54:40 · answer #7 · answered by SOADfan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whatever dude... Just stick your **** in her already...
2006-12-03 23:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by Sir 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋