It's been nearly 5 months since my ex and I officially broke up (well, he dumped me in a very jerky way). Will I ever feel normal again? I'm 30 and this was the 1st time I ever allowed myself to get that close to someone and so now I am crushed girl. I feel lke I'm gonna feel wounded and broken for life. Will this ever fully heal?
2006-12-03 15:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
after a while you will get over it. i have had my heart broken and it took me four months or so to get over it. but this person was my first love my first kiss, who i lost my virginity too. and so on. it hurts, i know. but you will realize if it was meant to be you would still be together and who knows. maybe in the future yall will get back together. you just have to move on and give it time. alot of guys break up with girls to see what else is out there and then when they realize that you are with someone else, they get all mad and jealous because know they want you again and they cant have you. dont let that take you back to him, if he hurt you once, chances are he will do it again. the pain will go away eventually and you will move on. dont blame yourself for what happened, just think positive. think to yourself that this gives you a chance to see what else is out there. there are alot of fish in the sea, and ones that will love you and want to be with you for who you are. if he hurt you, he didnt deserve you. just be more cautios about your choice of men. i had my heart broken 2 times and i realized maybe it is the kind of guy that i am attracted to and start tryin to find someone opposite of those men, you may find you future husbad! just dont rule everyone out. i decided to try dating a different type of guy the i usually would and have found someone really great!
2006-12-03 16:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by linderlou2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to hear that your upset. Don't worry the feeling does go away after awhile. I had a guy that I was in love with and we went our separate ways about 61/2 years ago. I'm married now with 2 kids been married for 4 years but It did take a while to get over him. Every now and then I will think of him and everything. Try getting together with some of your friends and going out. Do the things that you enjoy it will make life better and brighter. Hope I helped :)
2006-12-03 15:57:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will go away...its been 6 months since me n my x broke up and im not comp. over him...and u know ur not in as much pain as u were 5 months ago right? Time really does heal! keep ur head up high and dont be sad over a guy hes not the one and it didnt work out.. get a makeover and date around and find someone new without comparing him to ur x because that does get in the way..feel better and good luck!
2006-12-03 16:02:32 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nicely...you've purely been courting for 6 weeks. i have self belief that 6 weeks is slightly early telling any guy the way you sense. quite if he's bitter from a divorce that is purely a three hundred and sixty 5 days previous. the guy hasn't had the era of time you've had to heal, push issues aside, and bypass on. i will wait...keep in ideas, at the same time as courting we are all on our suited habit a minimum of the first 2 months. do not rush..purely income from the friendship and the time you spend jointly. purely imagine of this... you're saying he had a foul lengthy marriage and divorce. danger is he's likely dealing with the child Mama Drama. you may want to be...The Rebound stylish. You stated the terrific courting you obtain burnt. perhaps, you lifted the anchor too quickly and went crusing in without a captain. nicely, female..I advise you positioned some ice on those pants of yours and funky it.. Take some time and provides you him time. reliable luck!
2016-11-23 15:31:18 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, im a guy and im glad to tell u that YES the pain is gonna go away. its normal that u feel like that because u were attached to him. just give it time and try not to think about him to much. try doin things that will keep ur mind busy and it will help u a lot. u r young dont let that make u unhappy. if he didnt appreciate u someone else will. he was not the one. ohhh i hate the feeling but we have to go through that.
2006-12-03 15:59:12 · answer #5 · answered by Walt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont really have an answer but i just want you to know i am in the same boat as you, im 27 and it was the first time i let myself get so close to someone, only myne was for a year and a half and i thought we were going to get married and everything. its so hard to move on, i know what you feel! i even tried dating another guy and he stoped callin me now im have sad thoughts again about my ex! its the worst ever! Just know your not the only one feeling sad.
2006-12-03 15:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Dreamer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will, I was so depressed for one week over a certain miserable relationship. Surely you will heal but you have to choose to forget him. Everything is a choice baby. Choose not to love him as a mate. Choose to forget him. It can be very painful at first but I assure you, it gets better by the day. Now go head and adjust yourself, gather up yourself and make your choices and do something fun.
2006-12-03 15:56:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will, girl. It takes different lengths of times for different people, but I could almost guarantee ya that if you have no contact with him, that in about a year, you'll be doing much better. If you do have contact, start the year from that point.
2006-12-03 15:58:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just have fun... God has plans for each one of us.... forget about that by being busy on other things... be with your friends just like the way you were doing before you and your boy had the relationship...
you'll find the right man in the right time.. just wait... but don't have revenge on what happened to you.. not all guys are like him..... there are other men who deserves your love...
go girl...
2006-12-03 15:57:55 · answer #9 · answered by iosis_11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your heart for people, girl. Otherwise you are going to keep yourself in the box, out from life - which isn't perfect, but you do not have any other choices.
2006-12-05 09:10:06 · answer #10 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋