I like this girl but she told me she is HOOKING UP WITH A SENIOR in our high school. The thing is that i am afraid that she will be heart broken. Also my mom wont let me go out with a girl and i am 15 going on 16. I want to go out with this girl but i dont know what to do. PLZ HELP
2006-12-03 15:05:28 · 13 answers · asked by mexico 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Buddy u r cool and I like ur attitude. I know u need a grl, thing I don't know is u got "that" to get her or not. Stop writing and thinking things like "her" heart broken, it is not her but its urs you should be worried out.
It is gd news that she is not in any relation yet, so do have lots of chance here. Be nice and bold in front of her. She needs a man not a boy and if you can manage to be "man enough" for her she is yours. It also means u need to be more BOLD and courageous and at same time be nice and gentle to her. Mean time try to spend more time with her and in front of her, somewhere she could see you. Do not talk much in front of her, listen to her, bcx grls r talkative and men r bold. ALSO stay away from that senior, even when she is close to her. u got nothing to prove to him and all u care is that grl. If you manage to understand all things u r reading now, u chances of getting her will increase to 97%, 3% less is for her foolishness, if even doing all this she let u go. Then my friend it is not yours but something wrong with her and she do not deserve you. Gd Luck.
2006-12-03 15:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Slow down champ. She told you she was hooking up with a senior...she obviously doesn't like you as much as you like her. You will fall in love lots of times in your lifetime. There is a reason your mom won't let you date at such a young age. It is because when you are young you make stupid decisions and some of those decisions affect the rest of your life. They are life altering decisions and you don't have the maturity to handle it. Please listen to your mother...she really does have your best interest at heart. You won't see that until you have kids of your own. Trust me. There are millions of girls in this world...your true love may be in the next town. She may not be in your school. Have patience.
2006-12-03 23:11:40 · answer #2 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This girl may not be worth your time and efforts since she has already got someone in mind. You don't want to get hurt that you already did. It is good to be concern about your friends' welfare but as a friend, you can only do so much and all else will be depended on her. Stay away from messy situation and move on. You're find someone more deserving of your attention. Cheers!
2006-12-03 23:09:24 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...........your mom's rule you can't do much about. But, if she does end up with her heart broken, she will need a shoulder to cry on. Be there for her and you'll be in. Don't rush her or anything, just learn to listen. Master the art of listening to women and you've got a skill for a lifetime.
2006-12-03 23:09:13 · answer #4 · answered by Yote' 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gets heart broken by the senior that is something she will have to deal with and your mom is right, you are to young to be dating.
2006-12-03 23:07:23 · answer #5 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get into a group that is always around her.Isnt that making more friends,Like everyone just dont let it get you down maybe she will see something in you.And for gods sake dont hang on her like a lost puupy.Just be nice and say Hi to her often.How ya been girl .ya look good today girl.Dont let this get you down because it will if you let it.
2006-12-03 23:13:24 · answer #6 · answered by sceptic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go hang out with her in groups. Or you could meet her in the library or mall. Making friends with her won't hurt. Good luck!
2006-12-03 23:08:20 · answer #7 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's none of your business whether she gets heartbroken or not. You're only 15 not old enough to date. Obviously your mother is correct in not allowing you to date because you're not mature enough.
2006-12-03 23:10:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should talk to her about it... why/how do you know she'll be heart broken? if you know for sure then tell her... well a lot of parents dont want their kids dating... but they do it anyways...
2006-12-03 23:07:57 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a cock block and tell her he is an ***, and tell her your feelings and if she doesn't like you move on. And tell your mom to relax or find public places to meet.
2006-12-03 23:09:12 · answer #10 · answered by Nathan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋