I want to understand why some men kick a good woman to the curb because she is not a fluesy and would rather be with a fluesy who uses them for sex..their money and whatever else they can get...that happen to me twice now for being a good woman..I get kicked to the curb..can someone help me out with this???
2006-12-03 15:03:28 · 32 answers · asked by Deb 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just gotta keep plowing through the weeds until you see the flowers my dear.
2006-12-03 15:05:13 · answer #1 · answered by E B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you want to sound rational, id like to tell you that you cant really get that much if you dont have that much to offer...... lets say for instance.....youre looking for a fit, smart, good looking guy......but then you put yourself in perspective (not saying that youre like this) but most girls pretty much want the best guy in the market when they themselves dont have that much to offer...... some girls want there men to be smart when they it is obvious that if they wore smart enough they would know where to look for them....so they arent really that bright...so you cant expect much there........some women want there men fit.... when they probably dont care about how they look....they hardly work out, and diets are just a routine they are used to breaking, this all goes in the same label for good looking........soooo in general if you ever want to find a guy that fits what youre looking for, you should at least get youre act together and start working hard on everything about yourself... looks, intelligence, etc.......not trying to be superficial....but its the awful truth....believe me, once you turn out being this confident good looking smart woman youll see you wont even have to look......the men will come on there own.........good luck then!!!
2006-12-03 15:12:32 · answer #2 · answered by feelingtherain 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away from such men and be careful the next time you get to know someone. Infatuation sometimes do kicked-in and one may fall for the trap again. You need to realise that soon since you've been there! Take care!
2006-12-03 15:06:30 · answer #3 · answered by SingGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cause the guys are low life's; only looking for sex and a free ride.
Hang with a better class of people, go a little slower, just do group stuff with guys (and other women).
Concentrate on your hobbies and interests, then you don't care if some guy notices you or not.
2006-12-03 15:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Rockies VM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The elusive "good man" is notorious for not being found when the "good woman" is actively looking for them. They rarely show up in the same places that "jerks" are known to be.
Seriously, it's the same for nice guys. Each of us has to go through a lot of bad experiences to better appreciate it when the good one finally comes along. A wounded heart has to beat stronger to survive.
Don't worry about it so much, be true to yourself, and be patient. "He" is out there, and he'll show up when you least expect it.
No worries.
2006-12-03 15:17:45 · answer #5 · answered by randomthoughtpatterns 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your not looking in the right places? Sometimes they are also right infront of your nose. Guy's that have family values, hardworking providers, are usually not the guys that stand out. They certainly not the ones driving a corvette hitting the clubs on Friday nights.
2006-12-03 15:13:39 · answer #6 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you keep getting tangled up in one-way relationships with losers? Next time you go on a date, ask yourself if you would take this guy home to meet your father. If not, you got no business moving in with him or sleeping with him. If he's the right guy, you will know soon enough without compromising what's left of your integrity. Don't settle for second best.
2006-12-03 15:08:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i cant help you sorry as im not one of those guys i appreciate whatever i get from my g/f and well we been together now since we were 13 and were 18 now but i knopw what you mean alot of my friends are like that im on your level love i dont understand why they do it ,,its just not logic or basically cos some guys are just complete (w a n k e r s) wish i could help you
2006-12-03 15:06:46 · answer #8 · answered by liam_jones_10_10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
where are all the good women where are all the good people just dont worry be urself and eventually ull find the right man dont worry about the bad people, now i need some people to help me out with my problem lol ( read my last question) but good luck the right man is out there for u
2006-12-03 15:05:51 · answer #9 · answered by wafflehouse 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's a lesson to be learned here but your not seeing it.Stop sleeping with every man you meet and keep your money in your pocket.If all you do is show them your checkbook to try to get them to stay,when you cut off the money,you cut off the relationship.And if you try to buy a man he will surely use you. Sell yourself,not buy a date.
2006-12-03 15:14:23 · answer #10 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Those two men were not of the character that you wanted. Keep your standards high and keep circulating and you will find a good man. They are out there.
2006-12-03 15:06:15 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋