i know, i know, its all about the money...ive never seen a twenty-year old woman date a fourty-year old that was poor....but what i think is funny is that these stupid women dont think about...when he retires, hes gunna have a good ole time...hunting, fishing, going to the country club playing cards with his buddies, all the while she is still working...when it comes time for her to retire, shes going to be bathing, feeding and changing his diapers
2006-12-03 14:56:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girls that do that DONT think about it, and if they do they probably figure they'll stick theyre old 'sweetheart' into an old folks home and not deal with that. Ya, its screwed up...youd think me being a girl id understand it but i dont either. Easy explanation: there are a lot of different girls in this world, and there'll always be the gold diggers and the S L U T S. i hope you'll never have to deal with them
2006-12-03 15:00:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well while you do make some vaild points and for the most part you have answered your own question "i know, i know, its all about the money...ive never seen a twenty-year old woman date a fourty-year old that was poor" there are other things to keep in mind. Besides the money older men are seen as a safer investment as a whole for young woman because older men are thought to be more mature ,not as reckless as younger men, and well established.
2006-12-03 15:09:02 · answer #2 · answered by justsomedude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not always just about the money. Sometimes women want a man that has their crap together. Why waste precious time waiting for a guy to grow up and be responsible when you can find a guy that's older and is already there? The fact that he's rich is just a bonus. And if he does have money, chances are she won't have to work all that much and when he retires, he will spend most of his time showing her off on nice sandy beaches. Then she can pay someone to change his diapers.All men want to go hunting and fishing, and they can do it whenever they want, not just when they retire. Sounds like you might be a little bitter about the whole thing. So maybe you should try acting like an older man and take care of yourself.
2006-12-03 15:02:04 · answer #3 · answered by belleebuttons 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, if it's between an immature frat boy and a mature man, I'd take the mature man. But you are right, being with an older man ages a woman. I mean, if you are 30, do you really want to sit around with people talking about retirement??? That's why guys married to younger women had better stay on their toes - the ladies will get bored and leave them.
2006-12-03 14:59:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
is more related to the fat that older guys may know how to tread a lady better... tho the secury helps a lot and most of the time girls that would go out with an older guys are the one looking for then no ther other way around
remenber that some women are more mature than guys .. so to then may no be right to date a guy the same age
2006-12-03 15:00:42 · answer #5 · answered by legna20v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i realyl dont think that its a money deal anymore .. i mean dont get me wrong u have suga dadies and suag momas out here in this world now.. but i think the deal is now whats it like to be with a older person compared to a younger one.. let me tell u my firned the rsults are amazing.. myslef i have dated older guys before not cuz of money or what they had.. it was just to see if a older guy thought and acted like a younger ones did.. well one did and the other didnt.. i eman u get all these imature brats that are younger u wanna try out a older perosn to find that maturaty in them.. the have more experince and more maturaty about them.. i'm not saying go out anf fina a old woman.. i dont see nothing wrong with 5 -10 years difference. but when u hit 20 plus thers a problem..
2006-12-03 15:03:56 · answer #6 · answered by Shelly 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its not always about money, some women chose to date older men because they are mature, more stable, and generally are ready to settle down and start a family( most women are ready for a family in their mid twenties most men are not ready until after their mid thirties).
2006-12-03 15:07:05 · answer #7 · answered by mslilbit24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thatsn how its is money fuccing talks in this world i dont care what any girl says every one has a prize. give me a girl with a 5 mill im there but the difference ima have my girl on the side. and stack up my paper to invest it and roll out. while girls have their guy on the side and spend all the money shoping and thinking how to kill the old man to stay with the money at the end she ends up putting diapers. real talk i know alot of girls are gonna disagree but a true girl would tell that true
2006-12-03 15:01:55 · answer #8 · answered by jose m 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A man takes about 40 years to make. Until then...........you are all just little boys in a big ocean. One day you will be big, too. Then YOU can get the young ones. A man can still make babies when he is 40. A woman can't necessarily.
2006-12-03 14:59:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it isnt all about the money... they say that men mature slower, and so if the girl is 10years more mature than guys her age, and if the guy is 10years less mature than women his age, then they are a perfect match.
love is a crazy thing, unexplainable and perfect.
2006-12-03 14:59:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋