My boyfriend went away on the weekend and attended his work dinner. i tried to call him the next morning but he didnt answer and the hotel said he was not in his room. he said he had an early night. i then heard that he was out a t a gay club and being offered drugs. he has taken drugs in the past and lied to me about it - saying it wouldnt happen again.he then said he did not take drugs and did not end up going into this club. he is due home today and i dont know what to do? do i work it out again? or should i call it quits?
2006-12-03 14:54:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Who told you that he was in the club? Is that person trustworthy?
If you find out that it's true, you might not be able to trust your boyfriend. Talk to him about it, and if he's not sincere, then I would get rid of him. You'll have similar situations all the time if you don't.
Oh, and just b/c your b/f went to a gay bar does not mean he had sex with a person with AIDS, like the person above me is trying to say.
2006-12-03 14:59:16 · answer #1 · answered by F.J. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first has he ever lied to you about anything before. If the answer is no then you have no reason not to trust him and you should just talk to him about what your feeling. If the answer is yes then you should rip into him and find out exactly what happened and then leave him if he really messed up, if he didnt screw up to bad just give him the cold shoulder for about 3-4 days.
2006-12-03 15:01:14 · answer #2 · answered by montana_infantry_man 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A bad news bear. My vote is to bail. A gay club? There is this really nasty disease called AIDS which will kill you. That is HIGH risk stuff. Dump him like hot lava
2006-12-03 14:58:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do whatever makes you happy.......If you have to check up on him, it's really not worth it.....is it?
2006-12-03 14:57:08 · answer #4 · answered by Mr. US of A, Baby! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋