Hi,
Im a maths at the moment... and the thing is I have a crush on the teacher! How do I get over the particular atraction? He's really hot but he's got a girlfriend! He loves me too and we kiss after class in his office, he's 30 and says he wants to move the relationship further-- sexually...what should I do?
2006-12-03 14:52:12 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please tell me your in college and not in middle or high school....
2006-12-03 14:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dont even think of getting him if he's already got a girl. Your teacher looks like a cheater to me for saying "i luv u" while he's still attached to sum1 else. U wudnt want your boyfriend to do that behind your back right? Unless u'd like to be his 2nd girlfriend (or his pet) thats a completely different thing.
How old are you? A lot of guys in their early 30s like to get a casual relationship which results in dating more than 1 girl so watch out for this type.
And wait a sec...you both kiss after class and he wants to move further sexually?? Sorry but thats a yuck for me cuz I prefer to find a guy who wants to commit rather than plain sexual thingy. And doing it @ skool? NEVER!
My advice: u deserve a better guy so forget him! I'm just afraid u'd b brokenhearted in the future for being with him. Lots of hot & GOOD dudes out there...wake up!!
2006-12-03 23:56:51 · answer #2 · answered by rhodie_girl 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you are in high school, then danger, danger, danger! What he is doing is criminal, and American society does not take well to this. Break it off quick, and get away. He has no right to do this, and you might consider reminding him of his job. Reporting him...it might have to be. How many others is he hitting on? it's hard to say. This needs to stop. His attraction for the females is understandable, but for him to act on his desires is extremely unprofessional. Your teacher was hired and trusted to do his job and do it professionally. Take a step back and remind him of his job. There will be no future with you in his life because of the circumstances. You could not be in his life because of his personal life that I'm sure he does not want to give up. He's not going to tell you that. IInstead he's attracted to you and wants to experience sexual intimacy. What do you expect after that? I guarantee he wants only that. He can't afford anything other nor really wants to. I'd bet on it.
2006-12-03 23:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by sweeta : 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should tell your parents...now. THIS IS ILLEGAL! If a man above 18 is having you-know-what with someone under 18, it's illegal! you could both be sent to jail...is that what love's all about? NO! If your teacher loved you, he wouldn't put you in such a compromising situation. He's using you, and it's disgusting. I'm sorry I had to day that, but get yourself out of the situation....NOW! Tell a parent or trust adult before you find yourself losing more than your virginity....
2006-12-04 23:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Brommy A 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
WHoooooooooooAH!
How old are you????
If you are a college student, thats not soo bad. But still need to focus more on your studies and less on the teacher breaking the law.
If you're 15.......LOL....find a freaking 15 year old wanting to date you, and that shouldnt be hard since 15 year olds are just waiting to get in your pants and say "i love you" every 5 seconds like it has no meaning.
2006-12-03 23:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Broken ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ur kidding right ?? he kissed u at school??
he's 30 how old are u ?? are u legal?? the fact that he has a girlfriend means he's not serious about u and he just wants to be that teacher that screws his female student he'll go back to mates and think he's a hero.... stay away from him, and the fact he has already kissed u IS BAD... its a breech of ethics let alone morals..... good luck
2006-12-03 22:58:36 · answer #6 · answered by aime 2 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Run,,it is not worth it..He is using you and you will get hurt...He just wants to see how far you will go,..,It is not wrong to have a crush..I think that is normal to a certain extent..Kinda like we think are dads great when we are young..It will pass, don't give into this..and quit kissing him or giving him any come ons..He has a girlfriend he thinks you are young and foolish..Please find someone your age you will thank me later..Please listen
2006-12-03 23:22:18 · answer #7 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
What you should do is not have anything to do with this teacher any more. He's a pedophile, and he's *certainly* not in love with you. Oh, and telling your parents would be a good step, too.
2006-12-03 22:56:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dont go for it. its really obvious that your teacher is trying to take advantage of you. and also what you guys were doing is wrong. if you go for it, its also illegal, he would be going to jail for that. also he has a gf. which means you shouldnt even get involve in their relationship. i think is whats between you guys is lust and not love. he is using you for whatever reason so please dont fall for it. ALSO making love dont me he loves you. thats all i can say! so whatever you gonna do i hope you think deeply before you make a big mistake.
2006-12-03 23:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by Nooodle 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
stop and think about what you are doing. you are helping a grown man cheat on his wife. is that the person you want to be? would you want your husband doing this to you? put yourself in the wife's shoes. if you look closely enough, you'll find your own answer.
2006-12-03 23:02:47 · answer #10 · answered by happyinblue 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're a liar lol Teachers arent allowed to kiss students and im pretty sure he wont risk his career for a student....
2006-12-03 22:55:15 · answer #11 · answered by Help me 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋