i need some major advice now (please no gay answers i am really feelin bad i dont need gay answers right now)?

Question

ok well the past 7 months i have been so depressed. im 15 yrs old. i am relatively overweight and i dont see a point in living anymore. i hear every day how warm hearted i am and how wonderful i am but i can't seem to find a girl who likes me more that a good friend. i helped someone stop smoking recently and that very next night the girl i am in love with got asked out, she thinks im a great guy but obviously she doesnt like me. this has happened in the past 7 months to multiple girls. girl in my grade are very shallow, if you do not look good, you mean nothing to anyone relationship wise. i really dont find a point in waking up in the morning

i am currently dieting and working out, i am around 220lbs

Answer 1

Dude you're only 15. I don't know the reason why you're over weight. If it bothers you that much it's time to get yourself in shape. I've seen big guys do it before. They turn out to have big muscles under all that fat. You're still growing. I can promise you if you start now. You'll be in shape before you know it. You'll be complaining that you have too many girls and not enough time. =)
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Answer 2

Please don't change who you are just because you couldn't find a girl. I'm sure you're a great person with a great personality, and I'm sure that some day, a girl will be attracted to you. You probably wouldn't want to date shallow girls either, so let them pass by, like the sushi in the sushi bar. And by the way, you're still young, so you have a long way ahead of you. Why don't you take up this opportunity to do other stuff and activities. I'm sure the charities and organizations out there would love a helping hand especially from a nice person like you. At the same time, you will make more friends too. Lovers come and go, but friends will always be there. I wish you the best in every thing! Good luck!

Answer 3

When i was 15 about a 100 years ago girls were and still are into looks and money of which i had neath er! Now back to you your only 15 life is over if you cant get a date!Well lets rethink this you have at least 50 years to find a girl friend. Now just because one girl wont date you don't stop looking that's where the fun starts which one do I wont to go out with this week> Girls do the same thing they change boyfriends as fast as one a week . So don't think life is over life is just getting started!! Now put the video game down and get out there and find the girl.

Answer 4

You know what I found out in my 23 years of life, is that some people who are so shallow have bigger insecurities in themselves then most. Why would you want to end your life when you have barely began to live it? You have so much still ahead of you. As far as getting into a relationship, why not try approaching it as all facts on the table. Most of the time when someone says they only see you as a friend it is because they weren't aware of the fact that you liked them to begin with. See if you tell them from the beginning then maybe they will see you in a different life. Be more confident and more good things will happen for you. It is all about charisma and how you carry yourself. Good luck hope this helps, and hopefully it won't be too much of a gay answer.

Answer 5

Don't you worry about a thing!!! That age is SO hard!!! I am 30 and I have to say that around 15 was the hardest...it will get better...I promise!!! YES, girls AND guys are VERY shallow at that point in their lives....their bodies are changing and they are trying to be accepted into the right crowds. For some reason, girls at that age are into the 'bad boys!' Don't you go there either...this world has enough of those!!!! If people are telling you that you are a great guy, you probably are...I don't doubt that for one minute! Right now, you need to focus on yourself and your self esteem. Build that up, because when you get older, women will think that it is a VERY attractive feature to have in a man! In fact, it is very important to be a man with a good self esteem...not to be confused with cocky, now! :) Work on your grades and make them the best you can. Work on a scholarship!!!! Make a difference in YOUR life, because God gave it to you as a gift. Make it a good life, and only you can do it!!! When you wait for the right person and don't rush into anything (when you are older) life is FANTASTIC!!!! :)

Answer 6

I know you will think its easy for me to say it but you are only 15 years old, when I was 15 I didn't have a boyfriend and I didn't think it was right either. I didn't have a boyfriend until I was 18, and even then it was a few short term relationships before I met who would be a 14 year relationship. There are so many women out there and you have so much life to live. You may be surprised if you just calm down and continue doing what you are doing to look your best, you will hook up with someone before you know it. When the time is right, it will happen.

Answer 7

please dont say that you dont feel like living. that is horrible and you are only 25, you have your whole life before you. i am also 15 and i kinda understand what you are going through. I am not that pretty and am not amazing at anything. So when i found out that your looks is all that mattered i was completely crushed and i didnt know what to do. well i am single right now and very happy. please dont worry, someday there will be someone out there for you. for now you will just have to deal with not having a girlfriend. its not that big of a deal because we are only 15 and still have plenty of time. you sound like a really really sweet guy, i think that it is just going to take some time. dont let yourself fall for all of those shallow girls. just dont let it happen. raise your standards so you dont go looking for them. maybe there is a girl in you grade or in others that is looking for a guy just like you. And there is a point in living, if you have just made someone stop smoking that is pretty much saying that you just saved someone's life. there are many people out there that still need you, you just dont know that yet. dont give up. your family needs you and many other people need you as well. it is not a problem, my older sister did not get her first boyfriend until she was a senior. there is plenty of time. dont waste your life. enjoy it and dont worry so much about the fine lines. good luck.

Answer 8

Dude, when I was 15 I was skinny as a chopstick and that really bothered me so now I'm 20 everything changed! You have to use your disadvantage to your advantage and start changing your self imagine! Start eat right, work out, study hard, and put your trust in God. Anything is possible because you are still very young, which is already an advantage. Go to college and become a good doctor then you turn around to those girls that didn't give you **** and let them see how unreachable you have become to them! You gotta make things happen for yourself and by wanting to not wake up in the morning only means defeat. You have to fight back and win!

Go get them!

Answer 9

15 and can't get a date. You and half the kids in your class. Don't be so hard on yourself. It really don't matter if you are fat and ugly, you can still get a date. There is someone for everyone. Girls love guys that can make them laugh. Another thing, if you find a girl you like, wink at her and smile. See what she does. Let nature take its course. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't panic because nobody will go out with you, there is a whole world out there. You have a soul mate, she just may be in the next town right now. You said the girls are very shallow, you are right. They are idiots. You don't want to go out with snobs like that anyway. Have patience.

Answer 10

reason to wake up in the morning: how about for your self and your family and friends. lifes not all about girls. you should want to live for yourself not for others and it sounds like you have made a diffreance even if it is just a little thing like saving a cat from a tree, doing something shows that you well have a great life and if all you can get is just girls and friends then thats all you need you dony have to have a girlfriend jsut because everyone else does. and the girls who you have liked must not have seen the real you and if they did then they were to afraid of what ppl might think so just wait tell the right person comes along cause the right girl wont care if you a re 500 pounds or ever just 100. to them your looks wont mean anytihng.

Answer 11

Well, there is something you can do to change your situation.........Start a sensible diet and weight training program, because even when you get older its still gonna be the same thing! You should be happy to wake up everyday, you have a chance to change your life in a positive way! Think positive, within a couple of months you will see a difference in your body, and how people look at you..............And just imagine, with that great heart you got, and a great body you make every girl go crazy for you! GOOD LUCK!