My girlfriend wants the phone number of the girl I cheated with. Will this solve anything?
2006-12-03 14:06:41 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the cheating happened a while ago, it was a random one night stand. I broke all contact with the girl I cheated with. Deleted her number everywhere in my phone. She messaged me randomly, girlfriend saw, I confessed, told the girl i cheated with off and deleted the messages again.
2006-12-03 14:13:26 · update #1
The thing is, I honestly don't have the number to give. She messaged me two days ago then I deleted them cuz I wanted nothing to do with her
2006-12-03 14:30:27 · update #2
From experience... she probably wants the number because she is still questioning if you are talking to the other girl. If you are totally wanting to get back together and stay together, give her the number. She probably won't call. If she does call then the other girl will just be able to confirm that you haven't returned her messages and it was nothing. Who cares about the other girl right? Let your girlfriend call so that she can be sure you aren't talking anymore. Once you have violated her trust she will be questioning it for a long time. Give her no reason to question it! Give her the number so that she can stop wondering! Hey we all make mistakes buddy, but you have to REALLY suck up to get through a cheating mistake! Good luck!
2006-12-03 14:24:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a female... here you go... Don't do it. MOre than likely her intentions of wanting the number is to see how long you've been cheating on her, how many times... maybe get her name and possibly even try to meet her. These are all not good things for you my dear unless you like drama. If you like drama well then... welcome to your own nightmare. Good luck... oh and uh... more than likely your girlfriend will break up with you cause she will feel that she can't trust you. There is a saying that she might even try using...."once a cheater, always a cheater". I am a female, I've been cheated on and, yes... I wanted the other chicks #, and then a few weeks later we split cause i couldn't trust him. If he could cheat on me, then what else has he done behind my back to hurt me???? Know what I am saying??? Just a heads up.
2006-12-03 14:13:27 · answer #2 · answered by kimmysue1983 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to keep your girlfriend after cheating on her you better give her whatever she is asking for. Be prepared to be living in hell forever. She will never trust you. You may as well break it off with her or you will likely suffer the consequences. You are both too immature to have any kind of serious relationship.
2006-12-03 14:09:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way! There is most likely only two reasons she would want to talk with her; to either yell and scream at her, or rub the fact that she is now with you in the girl's face, either is no good. PLUS, if your girlfriend calls her, with modern technology, the other girl will have her phone number, and will most likely use it in a bad way. I think you just need to try and distance your girlfriend and yourself from her as much as possible...
2006-12-03 14:13:28 · answer #4 · answered by jj_skinner 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it will solve many things. i wanted a number from girl my ex for sure cheated with(i dont know, but im pretty sure he did,as he cheated with another girl) to find out what happened and stuff. but once u cheated, the relationship is f-u-c-k-e-d. it will be always there. she should just dump u and find a guy, who will respect her. trust me, she wants her number just so she can get more pissed off with u, and she has got every right. good luck TO HER
2006-12-03 14:51:00 · answer #5 · answered by Eli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving her the phone number will only make things WORSE! Either she is going to forgive you or th 2 of you will have to move on with your lives separately.
2006-12-03 14:09:42 · answer #6 · answered by bn_4600 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love her give her the number....but of course if you really loved her you wouldnt have cheated...and you will probably do it again, so why dont you stop hurting your g.f. and go be the player you think you are.
see you at the std clinic!
2006-12-03 14:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't know what it will solve except her curiosity. I somewhat think you owe it to the gal you cheated with to withhold it. Your girlfriend is YOUR problem not hers. Good luck!
2006-12-03 14:13:27 · answer #8 · answered by Theresa P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
delete her number now! I'm surprised you still have it if your girlfriend has found out you cheated.
2006-12-03 14:09:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it will. She wants the # so that she can confront the girl. I'd give it to her it will give her a little peace of mind. It will get ugly though so be prepared.
2006-12-03 14:09:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋