Well my ex BF aren't going out anymore. We're still friends, very good friends. But he likes my friend but he also likes me but he doesn't know why he doesn't want to go back out with me. I want to tell him I love him but I don't want to ruin what we got left but I want to tell him in the best way so that nothing more bad will happen. I'm also trying to get him back I know he wants to but he wont addmitt it he tells me all the time that I beautiful and that he wants to hug me. How can I make things back to normal with us?
2006-12-03 13:46:16 · 12 answers · asked by boy_crazy_girl_in_love 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just show ur feelings yeah it might b embarassing but u shouldn't b all clogged and bottled up 'bout it if i wanted 2 b friends wit a gurl but i just kept waiting & waitin' i wouldn't b having a best friend wit me now.lots of drama in ur story hav u ever wondered y he likes ur best friend and not wanna go out wit u again. ix he feeling da same way u might b feeling dose r da questions u should ask ur self also who broke one's heart first? im questioning dat mayb u should do things wit u and ur best friend dat will bring bak precious moments,memories,and stuff only u and ur bf went through a different thing would b u and ur x boyfriend do dix tell him let's play secret santa and then u make a card saying if a big fat guy grabs u and puts u in a bag dont worry 4 christmas i told u i wanted u plus den u say we're gonna make things a little bit more interesting by us havin' a contest 4 being a guy trying 2 find da best present at da end whoever hav da best .........(u make dat part up)...... and u bring roses 2 him saying until 1 rose die i will luv u 4ver but 1 of da rose u put iz gonna b fake and wen he find out it's fake he will know wat u mean by all da things u did 4 him like secret santa,pretending 2 b guy,buying stuff,and many more wait i forgot 2 tell u name da roses 12+1=13 if ur doin' it
p.s i once had a guy i liked i mean luv i wanted 2 ...................... i went 2 hospital............. he moved away............. nevermind dis iz 'bout u not me im here 2 answer ur quest. not talk 'bout me and my ex bf
2006-12-03 14:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by ....... 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, understand that time changes and nothing will be the same through time. You will find yourself in a more stable emotional stage if you learn to except change and embrace the beauty of it.
Find the beauty in the situation that you are in now. If it's so difficult to you to say those words to him right now, then find other ways to express it. Show him by your actions that you still care and love him. As they say, actions are more powerful than words. And when you feel that you're in the right time and the right circumstances to let those words flow out; it will happen.
Move forward in life and create something new and better. Enjoy the compliments you get from him, hug him, and live life. Those simple acts are more satisfying then trying to bring things back to normal which is not possible because time changes, people change, and all things evolved. Good luck, my dear.
2006-12-03 21:55:39 · answer #2 · answered by thrill5eeker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love can be a tricky thing. But sometimes, even when a couple has broken up, a little piece of them stays behind. There's an old proverb that is seen almost everyday by those who have lost an old love, "Although you grieve for those you have lost, you still hold their love in your heart." And sometimes, that grief is replaced by new love. Making that love even more special, and more beautiful, my suggestion is you have a social drink with him, and whomever he likes, and see if he has moved on. Only things may things return to normal, or things may change for the better.
2006-12-03 22:03:26 · answer #3 · answered by shai brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you really do need to tell him how you feel, but if he says he likes your friend and you, his feelings are confused. the best thing to do is tell him how u feel, then tell him that he needs time to figure things out (his feelings). then dont talk to him for a couple of days until he tells you how he feels. i'm goin through the same thing, i still love my ex, but we dont talk and we're not friends. at least you two are friends. and things wont ever go back to normal, but if he does still love you and you guys get back together, youll just start of fresh and new. good luck and god bless
2006-12-03 21:57:03 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh, thats hard.... so hes indecisive... Maybe hes just wondering if hes missing something, or when people are unsure they end up being afraid and backing out of what they do have cause they might be wrong...let him know that your their for him as a friend. Who knows, he might just voluntarily realize your really the only one for him. Otherwise, let him know how you feel, but dont seem desperate, if he really cares about you, he'll realize that he still wants to be with you... otherwise just give him time to think but DONT ignore him for wtvr reason. Act your usual charming self to remind him how much hes missing! ;p
WHATEVER YOU DO DONT ACT JEALOUS, that can be a complete turn off though i know its probably hard having him interested in your friend
GOOD LUCK!!! =)
2006-12-03 21:56:42 · answer #5 · answered by Ayleena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he says he doesn't know why he doesn't want to go back out with you, that means he's just not that into you (there was a book written by that title I think). He just doesn't want to say it - doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I say move on to the next guy - there's always another guy out there and another and another and another.....
2006-12-03 21:50:11 · answer #6 · answered by willtradeformoney 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"he doesn't know why he doesn't want to go back out with [you]" because maybe he's unsure of how you feel about him. so just tell him you love him. you'd be surprised at how he would react. "i only like you as a friend" lol jk! just go for it! =D
2006-12-03 21:54:03 · answer #7 · answered by starstrucktv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, break it slowly to him. if he really does love you back, and wants you back, then he'll imeadiately say yes.but you just have to be more easy on him. and if there is a problem in the future,talk to him about it. dont just build your anger up, and then burst @ him. good luck! i have guy probs too =( check out my q's =(
2006-12-03 21:50:54 · answer #8 · answered by cutiepiexx12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him how you feel and if he feels the same way then I don't see whats the problem. Well GOOD LUCK with that :-)
2006-12-03 21:49:41 · answer #9 · answered by Precious S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should just come right out and tell him how you feel. You should be honest with him and yourself.
2006-12-03 21:48:43 · answer #10 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋