Before anyone says anything i am not fat and going on one of those diets. i am actual super skinny. i am 13 and weight 84 pounds. it never changes.NEVER. everyone wants to be like me and i hate having comparsions to my body. y should i hate the perfect body when i like my body??????? i'm so confused
2006-12-03 13:31:56 · 20 answers · asked by cookiieeee 2 in Health ➔ Diet & Fitness
okay no of you helped i am not fat and i love my body. its hard to explain. it like i like my body but i hate its confusing to explain. and the girl that said shut up about my body and instead on school i say shut the f*ck up
2006-12-03 13:42:35 · update #1
be thankful for what you are
2006-12-03 13:34:25 · answer #1 · answered by thelordparadox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, I also don't really understand what the question is.. but I wanted to say something: I started worrying about my weight when I was like 8 or 9 and when I think about it, it is ridiculous, girls that young are still developing and there's so much more to being young than thinking about that stuff... But girls are getting more mature at younger ages and being thin is more and more desirable, so of course other girls are going to want to be like you, you are thin. It's hard for a lot of girls and women to accept their bodies instead of wanting someone else's so it's great that you love yours. To keep loving it, eat healthy every day, stay active and try not to listen to what others tell you you should look like or weigh. If you are happy with your body, that's all that matters. Hugs!
2006-12-03 13:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Nicole 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
But you don't have the perfect body. Nobody has a perfect body. The problem is that you guys are just kids and you're dumb. If you look at fitness magazines instead of fashion magazines you'll realize that the girls with muscle, that eat correctly (not just not eating), and exercise regularly have the closest thing to a perfect body and the "model" like girls actually look like underfed 10yr old boys. So, to summerize, kids are dumb because they beleive what's in fashion mags and you do not have the perfect body because you are not fit, don't eat right(5-6 small, nutritious meals a day) and by your description (of age, height, and weight) look like a little boy.
PS. Periods are not gross. Get used to talking about them, hearing about them, reading about them and especially learning about them. They'll be with you for the next 37 years.
2006-12-07 08:31:24 · answer #3 · answered by rod 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No teenage girl likes her body. That's just the way it is. Everyone at that age is insecure and feels like people don't like her and everyone is staring at her. Your issue is unique because you feel like you're too skinny, whereas most girls your age feel like they are too fat.
The problem from your standpoint is that girls feel like they have the right to complain about being too heavy, but if you say anything about being too skinny, everyone will hate you because society says skinny is good. Eventually most people come to terms with their bodies. You are what you are and there's only so much you can do to change your body. Hang in there; hopefully you'll feel better over time.
2006-12-03 13:45:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be confused, your young and still growing. everybody bodies changes through out their lives (age, diet, pregnancy). Just be happy that your healthy and live an active lifestyle. Believe when you hit your 20' you'll be thankful that you have a nice body shape and not have to worry about dieting.
2006-12-03 13:43:25 · answer #5 · answered by rexy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It takes time to be able to be happy with yourself. All girls have issues with their body. You probably shouldn't care what other people look like cuz that will only bring you down but it's hard not too. Tell yourself you like the way you look every mourning try some positive reinforcement. Remember that when someone says something bad about you it just reflects how crappy they feel about themselves so don't take it personal when says something negative that could hurt your self image.
2006-12-03 13:37:11 · answer #6 · answered by Ben V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a difficult time, going through adolecence. You and your body will go through many changes. You need to be thankful for what you have and be accepting of the changes that are occuring. Others may not be nice, and it is okay to tell them that when they say such things it hurts your feelings. They may not even know that it bothers you.
Hope this helps.
2006-12-03 13:37:07 · answer #7 · answered by Stasi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like something to talk with a good therapist about
I AM fat and I kind of like my body. I'm just used to it I guess. I like it better when I lose a bit of weight, 20 or 30 pounds less and I would very happy with my size and shape.
2006-12-03 13:35:20 · answer #8 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldnt hate it, stop trying to please everyone, you should be proud that you have it easy. i'm 17, 5'11, and 125 pounds, i used to eat BK for lunch every day for 3 years, and it never changed, i'm happy that i dont have to to anyhitng to stay healthy. oh yea, and 13, 84 pounds.. thats really light, actually, unless you're kinda short, like, 4'8" or something most high school girls are around 5'5" and normal weight for that would be... around 115
2006-12-03 13:36:51 · answer #9 · answered by peach 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop obsessing about your body. It's yours, your lucky you are not fat and that you are happy with your body. Don't let other people influence you to spend too much time thinking about it. Be healthy and happy.
2006-12-03 13:35:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being 13 years old and 84 pounds is not perfect. Most men like girls a little on the thicker side, at least i do. Around 5'4 120-130ish.
2006-12-03 13:35:17 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋