Well me and my boyfriend aren't together right now and we really want to be together but I don't know if he is trying to teach me a lesson or what... but i really want to be with him because i am pregnant with his child that is due in another 2 and a half mos. should i continue to try to get back with him if so what kind of help could you give a girl like me to mend our relationship... if not then just let me know why?... Thanks a bunch...
2006-12-03 13:19:56 · 7 answers · asked by Kenisha T 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
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2006-12-03 13:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by twister 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be with someone who doesn't love you just because you're having his child.
If he were a REAL man, he would have stuck by you and he'd be there to raise his kid. He's obviously no good. Even if he's trying to "teach you a lesson", what kind of lame excuse is that? Teach you what? Not to get pregnant? Sorry, but that was HIS fault, too.
You might want to give him one more chance. Ask him flat out if he loves you or not, and whether he wants to be a part of your kid's life. If he says no to either then you should forget him!
You deserve to be with a man who loves you and respects you (and doesn't try to "teach you lessons"). Your kid deserves a REAL FATHER. You can sue for child support and everything even if he doesn't want to suck it up and be a man. That would be my advice.
2006-12-03 21:25:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! Anyone who wants to teach you a lesson by abandoning you when you 6.5months pregnant isn't worth your time.
Move on without him.
Difficult? YES.
Impossible? NO!
2006-12-03 21:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by ♥Pamela♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it depends on what kind of guy he is. A child needs two parents. It helps them grow. However, if your boyfriend wouldn't make a good parent, than maybe its not the right thing.
Best of luck.
2006-12-03 21:27:48 · answer #4 · answered by Simon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first you need to figure out what your and his issues are for being seperated in the first place, then work those out. If he still wants to be with you and you with him, than i would date (no sex) until he is willing to commit i.e. marriage. (just my opinion here) he already got you knocked up and i wouldn't want to be his little sex toy since he thinked you have a kid now that it will be no biggie if you have more and he can get some whenever he wants, kwim?
2006-12-03 21:24:20 · answer #5 · answered by s91601 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol depends..if hes just doing it to teach a lesson and what the lesson is either way id tell him to quit playing games get his crap together or just leave me alone!
2006-12-03 21:22:49 · answer #6 · answered by cutenwild1769 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should try to get back with him and y'all work things out on the baby's sake. There are to many baby's being born today not having both a mom and dad.
2006-12-03 21:25:27 · answer #7 · answered by lacroy7 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋