After 2 1st dates w/ 2 different women -dates seemed to go well- I called the next day-no answer-left message?

Question

on their cellphone. Are these women not intersted because they
did not anser or call back. I had a lunch date saturday day
and dinner date sat. night.... Both semed to go well.
I called both of them sunday night 6pm, the other at 740pm-
neither answered , i left them messages- neither has called
back yet-its 9pm now...
Waht should I do ??
Can I call back monday & when do I call back- if they do not
answer- shoudl I ask leave them my email also- so if they
do not want to get back,they can email at least- or will
that sound too negative or desparate?

If they do not anser, should I leave another message or
no message/

Answer 1

Don't leave any more messages. Do try to call occasionally to try to catch them home. Some women like me will not call a man. I feel, it is too forward and aggressive. The man should be the pursuer. There are plenty of fish in the sea if these don't pan out so don't get discouraged. You won't sound desperate or negative if you say the right things. Try sounding upbeat and happy, like you are a pleasant person to be with and good company. If they don't seem interested move on to the rest of the fish in the sea. God has the perfect mate waiting for you. Just remember to pray and ask him to send her to you. Don't be too quick to hope into the sack. Give yourself time to know the woman, really know if she is a quality person. Make a list and tell God this is what you want in a wife. Pray every night and see if she doesn't come your way. Don't settle. Make sure you have a content feeling with the woman. Lord bless you.

Answer 2

Wow... be patient be patient! With new guys, I often wait a while to return a call. I have a busy life and don't always call back within the time frame you are even mentioning. I say just relax and wait a few days. If you do not hear back from either, I say call again. If nothing after a week, then she is not interested in you.

Answer 3

Give them a few days to return your calls, or you'll come across as desperate, and they won't want anything to do with you. Give both of them at least until Wednesday. If you really like them, call them again then. Definitely leave a message, not leaving one is sketchier, since they'll know you called from caller ID. Keep it casual when you do call. If they don't return that call, don't bother again, they're not interested.